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Maternal Deprivation Abuse

Francesca's picture

http://batteredmomslosecustody.wordpress.com/200his9/01/01/cook-county-i...

Had to share this. I'm sure most of you are familiar with this but I was not. I also refer to the references to Parental Alienation Fraud.

Very interesting. Why do these BM's resort to this? Abuse is abuse but every divorcing husband cannot be an independently wealthy abuser who has left a poverty stricken, terrified BM.

I've seen so much PAS I could write an independent book. Why has everyone forgotten what is best for kids in these situations?

Why, also, do BM's feel they have exclusive rights to children over the father?

Francesca

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anita...sigh's picture

:jawdrop: I looked at this website and it is pretty darn scarey. It appears to have no real facts to support their claims. Site for psycho BMs for sure.

auntie's picture

As my Bio says I was the caregiver to the endangered children. They had no Grandparents so I was a combination of Auntie and Grandma. Two of the kids are from my sister and her second husband had together, and my sister's son from her first marriage. (that dad told my sister that he didn't really want to have kids so he left) I have a brother that was given full custody of his son, the mother was a druggie. My brother was a great Dad, his son is proving to be a great Dad too.
My brother and his son did and do as our family always has done, the children are what the family is all about. Nurturing, educating, and enjoying watching them grow and being kids.
My now ex-brother-in-law was married before he married my sister. We went to the state he was from and went to 3 different counties and got all the court documents. His kids were permanently removed from both parents, by the State, and adopted out - the state said there was mental abuse and sexual misconduct. This was found out after my brother-in-law was asked to leave. He was asked to leave after he shoved my sister in a corner and raised his fist to strike her - she had just been released from the hospital after shoulder surgery her arm in a sling- she didn't want him to take the last of the family's cash to go to take the kids to the movies instead of buying food.
I had brought her home from the hospital and had started to leave and had to go back in for my keys, I called the police to save my sister from the man with the Black belt in some kind of karate.
After he left he stocked my sister, my husband and I. He would drive by all the time. There was knocking on the windows at night. Some one came in the house and moved things around and I don't think it was a ghost.
My oldest nephew told his Mom that his step dad had beat him with a belt and told him not to tell anyone because he was in charge. My nephew, 14 at that time and said his step dad had shown him porn from age 8 til he 14 because the step dad thought he was going to be gay because my nephew didn't talk about sex. My nephew filed a police report and our small town cops lost the paper work and the box of porn of my brother-in-law's and wasn't Playboys. It was bizarre things that I didn't even know anyone would think about doing, and tying women up and hurting them, and snuff porn. There was also a video of his of some teenaged girls sunbathing in their back yard with their bikini tops untied.
When my youngest nephew was 4 he told us one day that dad had tickled his privates. And he went into great detail. Our family doesn't talk about sexual acts and things like that in front of our kids. So we were shocked.
When we took the 4 year old to the Police, the cop said there was nothing wrong with that - he tickled his son too.
The Parenting Coordinator my sister had to go to is on
http://www.courtwhores.com/psychologists.html and http://www.damonslist.org/index.html. So we were curious about his background.
The state he moved from the board of psychologists took his license to practice as a psychologist for having a non-professional relationship with a client.
Our family has never had any negative interactions with the police, DHS, we don't drink or do drugs, none of us have been to jail, and all of us have good jobs and college backgrounds.
My niece and Nephew are now 11 and 7. no one in our family has been allowed to see them in two years.
THERE IS EVIL IN THIS WORLD.