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Today is BM's birthday. Part of me really wants to call her and say "Happy Birthday, enjoy being FIFTY"
I know, I know. I'm terrible!!!
Ok, I need serious help. My home is not a home anymore. My 15 year old step daughter has an 18 year old girlfriend who has all but moved in. My 16 year old step son smokes and plays XBox. Neither do anything to help out around the house, they don't clean up after themselves, neither goes to school anymore, the boy sleep cycle is approx. 30 hrs. long; ie he is often awake through the night keeping everyone from getting a good nights sleep and has a no issue with taking whatever he wants from anyone elses room whenever he wants.
and hopefully things will start working out again, however i am having serious doubts already as i have only been home 1 week and his kids are due to come today for the weekend and i am dreading it. He has told me shit is going to change around the house, the kids have been spoken to about respect and have been told to stop being lazy little bastards. The reason i left in the first place was due to kids bullshit and hubbys inability to see past it.
So here's an update to any of you out there that read my blog about the stalker I have at work and a gerneral overview for those of you who missed it.
So my BF and I have been together for 2 years and when we first started dating, we were extremely open about what we wanted in the future and I was up front about the fact that I want to get married and have kids.
So, apparently BM has started trying to explain to SS4 that I am his SM.
I really dont like this. She has what I feel to be crazy ways of explaining things, shes finally stopped telling him that god is a superhero. (Not like a superhero, but that god was a superhero-same as spiderman). I understand the idea of watering things down for children to understand, but there's certain things I feel shouldve be because it'll just confuse him later on.
I really don't want my role to be reduced to "the woman your daddy married" or "a fake mom" or whatever she decides i should be.
She is a SD who was raised by her StepDad. Her dad and her mother married when she was 2mos old.
Her BioDad was killed in a car accident before her mother knew that she was pregnant with my wife.
She did not find the "not my kid, not my problem" to be a particularly appealing perspective and went immediately to a "you chose us so you help" perspective. Which I have never had a problem with.
I'm wondering how that is done..I've seen many posts on this site that state "not my kid not my problem" or "I've totally disengaged from my skids". I'm curious how that is done..
If you see your skids every other weekend then ok that's one thing but if they live with you full time..how is that possible?????
Z :?
}:) so pissed off right now. my SD 6 1/2. has been getting in to lots of trouble as u may know if u have seen my last blogs. I just reseved a call from her teacher. SD stole from the teacher AGAIN. SD has stole from me and my husband, school, grandparents & family friends. We have takin everything away from her every time she has stole. its not working. she has been grounded for 2 weeks. not working. not able to go to fun Activities that was plain for that week. not working. gave her butt-woopens.. not working. nothin works for this kid.
so a few of you read my post yesterday, but for those that didn't i'll give a quick rundown
dh and bm are in the middle (hopefully the end) of a l o n g modification (over 1.5 years so far)
well bm denies any "extra" visitation simply cause "she's not required to allow it"-her words. and even schedules things for them on dh's time without consulting him first (which she's supposed to do-dh hasn't enforced the past, but has started doing such)