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So…prom is this weekend. For SS.
SS knows that BM has treated DH like dirt for many years, but I bet he still asks if she can come take pictures this weekend at our house.
Nope, not gonna happen. The boy is 18, he can go somewhere else and let her take pictures. Not happening in my house. BM has been worse than normal since SS moved in with us over a year ago, and I just can’t see opening my house to her and not smacking the crap out of her.
I know I won’t let BM come to my house for this little thing. In your situtaion, would you?
I do not know how, but my husband's ex-wife knows about us seeing SS. She left us 17 voicemail messages this morning. In the first 10 she is crying and saying she did not mean anything she said to SS (you mean telling him you wish you aborted him?). Then in the next 7, the bitch is ranting and cursing like a lunatic. She is so damn toxic. I have no idea how SS survived with her for so long. It is no wonder he made some of the choices and mistakes he did. I just want her to stop existing. I have never felt so strongly about someone.
ss16 let it out the last visit that BM is thinking of adopting 2 little kids, girls....
what is this woman up to?? it has never been a secret she wanted girls and her new hubby had one but she's now graduating HS like ss18 and will be leaving. she will still have ss16 and her new baby 4 - also a boy. so why not pay attention to your other two kids - boys, lets get 2 new girls!!! this woman's out of her mind. good for her for taking in needy kids, but i'm sure there's motive here. there is no way our support should go up because she chooses to adopt right???
Greetings! 
Am I bad person? He trys to take all attention all the time. Even from my family, I feel like he already has his family and I want mine to be able to give there attention to my daughter especially on her birthday. Her party is on a nonskid weekend but my husband is talking about trading weekends so that he will be there. I don't want that, I want a day about her, and with him there it won't happen. My husbands mom already favors him so much over our daughter and if he is there she will give even less attention to our daughter.
I had a really funny conversation with SS5 the other day, thought I would share. I am a cat person - always have been. So when I moved in 8 months ago I brought with me 2 cats. Keep in mind that I don't have kids of my own so before I met BF my cats were my family. And I do take pet adoption very serious. But I don't think it's the same as having kids, cats are much easier But it's a serious obligation you have to take care of the pets you take in.
I am really thankful for finding this site. I have been a stepfather for four years to four adult women (ages from 26 - 21) and have been at my wits end for all four years. To further compound issues, we are an interracial couple where I am an African-American and my wife and stepdaughters are Caucasian.
Good Morning Everyone!
Firstly, thank you for reading my post and in advance, for any much appreciated advice you could give me!
Its almost exactly a year ago since i posted on this site, in truth, i may as well "copy-paste" my previous message as things are still the same, if not worse.
I will "start from the start" and try to be as brief as possible!!
Im 36 years old, from London, England and have been living in Mexico for 4 years. My wife, who is Mexican and i have been married for 3. My wife has a 17 year old daughter.
My DH got upset because I won't allow his EX wife to controll him and recently i told him that NO his parents could not move in with us, SO HE LEFT ME !!! and our two sons .... When I got home from work there was a letter on the counter....Then he sends me a text last night saying I made this happen???? WHAT! are you serious ???
GG's counselor appt re: VD was YESTERDAY!
The counselor is *supposedly* an experienced SM (not to judge here but most likely a SMINO like the Behemoth herself)
According to the counselor, VD is "taking personal responsibility" for the breakup of her parents. However there is ZERO evidence of this in any of her writings to GG. In reality, the Behemoth's professional victimhood and rampant excuse making has been bestowed upon VD. To me this is just a manipulation technique to make GG feel bad that his poor widdle princess is taking blame for the breakup. GAG!
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