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Ok, first, the most "right now". Just wanted to know what some ppl think about this sitch: We have a fairly small apartment. So much so that we can see into SS15's room and onto the bed from the living room and my computer. We also have no couch in the living room (takes up too much space).So, I think it's ok if SS15 and gf lay on his bed to talk/share music/text/facebook/etc. BM is not comfortable with them "making out" which generally consists of kissing with their arms wrapped around each other, so I try to stick to her wishes.
I don't know how else to feel, therefore I don't know how to be except cold. I'm sitting in Ruby Tuesday's, ready to impale myself as I'm being treated as the child and SD4 is being treated like the SO. He talks to her and makes plans with her then asks me to tag along. She just freaking coughed her germs all over the table and he had the nerve to glare at me while I told her to act properly! Then there's MY dog. He wants her to treat it like one of her many discarded toys ("she isn't here long enough to play with them") when I haven't had him for a week yet!
with the STUPID phase! you can tell SD10 something SIMPLE like "do NOT be doing X" and she will 5 minuets later get in trouble for doing it, and say "I Didn't know i wasn't suposed to" Uh yeah WTF ever. I am sick of repeating myself and have gotten to the point that I tell her once, ONCE if she dont pay attention, not my problem! And, to top it off, she is doing things that her 6 yo sister KNOWS she shouldnt be doing WTF REALLY? She has also gotten to the attitude of "certian rules don't apply to ME" again WTF ever. the rules do NOT change from day to day.
If anyone remembers my previous post regarding SS and the Wii issue... SS was allowed to buy a Wii with his own money and we basically took it away from him.... I don't need anymore comments regarding this... I know it was wrong but I had to contend with DH on that one.
Well now, SS wants an XBox and is trying to save his money. SS doesn't have his own room. He shares with BS. We have another tv in the family room that can be used. The Wii is hooked up in the Living Room.
Well, my SD graduated High school at the end of May.
Now my question is...when should she go? How long do I have to put up with her lazy ass?
For real...she has a "new job" at a local fast food place. She applied cuz she didn't like working the morning hours at her old job. So now she works until midnight all the time. DH goes to pick her up. He complains about being tired etc...but I don't really care....she isn't my problem and I ALREADY take her lazyiness to work as it is.
Long story short, my DH's BD lived with us for about 3 years. It was always stressful with her living with us as it is my DH, myself and our 3 bio-kids in a small house. Her BM moved to Florida and that is the reason why she moved in with us. However, her and I do not get along. She used to watch my 2 girls when they got off the bus after school, which DH's BD is 16, and it was for maybe an hour. Her and my 7 year old at the time did not get along. My 7 year old would agitate and push DH's BD's buttons. Not once, but twice, DH's BD put her hands on my 7 year old.
FDH finally had his surgery. He told me on Thursday that it was going to be this past Monday, but I didn't want to get excited b/c it's been scheduled, rescheduled, and cancelled so much already.
BM is pathological liar, who has consistently popped up over the years to torture us, even though she has claimed that she is frightened of DH. She has relentlessly stalked me on the internet, finding me on social networking pages even after I had blocked her, sending me messages and emails, sometimes even devoting whole web pages to me. She has told lie after lie about DH, claiming he is abusive and a threat to her life, when this guy wouldn’t even hurt a fly.
My FDH and I have a bar that we hang out at fairly frequently, I used to work there, he DJS there sometimes, that's actually how we met. We hang out there together pretty regularly, sometimes when he is DJing, sometimes just for fun. On Monday we were there together and then on Tuesday (yesterday) he was having a few drinks there by himself after work. Later on Tuesday we were at home together having dinner when he mentioned something odd that had happened at the bar when he was there earlier.
A Woman we both sort of know came up to him and said ...
My DH and I managed to work through some of our issues. I found out I was pregnant, which was what we wanted and the issues with the middle SS seem to be getting worse. I am due in 4 weeks.
I need some advice in regards to the SS and some comments that he has made to me, not in the presence of my husband. They scare me.
A few months ago I was in the car taxiing them around and the SS asks what a will is. As I tried to give him a brief explanation he says out of the blue something in effect of I think about you being dead or about killing you....
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