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I know this is a such a rhetorical question and I totally know why they let themselves be sucked in by their lying, cheating skids but why oh why can't they just no to them when they are being taken advantage of? I know this will cause alot of comments but I just had to vent for a minute.
IM new here. I've been with my bf,my son's father for almost. 4 years. our baby is 10 months.he has 2 sons by a complete idiot. i didn't know what i was getting into being a stepmom. it sucks!!!!! plus their birth mother does nothing for her kids emotionally or financially. i feel so overwhelmed. i feel like no one understands what i go thru. i hope joining this site will give me some guidance and hopefully i can connect with other stepmoms who feel like the wicked stepmother.
So my DH and I are working on getting our house ready to sell so that we can buy a one story closer to my family. A lot of stuff needs done, powerwashing the outside, painting everything, cleaning out the basement that is still full of his grandmothers stuff, and putting new tile in the bathrooms. Needless to say we are going to be busy. So my DH goes outside before work to powerwash the siding on the back of the house(the front is brick) it takes him most of the morning to do and he still has the deck to do.
:jawdrop: :jawdrop:School has been out a month, (DH has 100% custody of his kids, 10 and 6. BM has not seen or even talked to kids in 7 months) I can deal with the usual gripes of "shes hitting me" or "shes being mean to me" BUT SD10 has a snarky attitude, thinks the world REVOLVES around her and thinks she can do no wrong. Today, SD6 came out to tell me that SD10 was starting fights with her. Okay, sibling rivalry, I can understand THAT I have an older sister, we fought like cats and dogs growing up.
Pretty much-title says it all..I keep reading DAILY on this board this phenomenon-do you not know that NOTHING good can come from a rebound relationship, a relationship built in dishonesty, cheating or even a realtionship that hasn't had time to heal after the divorce.
So the BM goes from crazy mode in riding SS17 about homework and chores, to complete indifference and neglect.
Both skids needed to use her computer last night in order to print out their reports and do research. Apparently this wasn't convenient for her (more than likely the kids put it off and she was being an ass about not helping them). The skids contacted DH to ask if he could pick them up at the library today because they needed to finish their projects. BM then locked herself in her room from 7pm on last night. I truly think she is bi-polar.
The MRI results are in looks like a severely bruised shin-bone and a partially torn ACL. It's still very swollen so SS14 is on crutches and has to wear a metal frame splint till the first part of July. I guess we'll find out more then.
SS14 was/is devastated by the news. I think this is he first time he's not been able to do what he wanted to do for a summer; and the thing is he has no one else to blame as it was his accident on his bike that caused the injury.
Based on yesterday I am pretty sure we will not be hearing much from ss21. After Saturday when he comes to get some of his crap out of our house he will have not much use for me or DH. Now all about mooching from BM. So since DH and I have cut him off financially I really do not think he will have much use for us.
Very sad and I feel sorry for DH. Have a very low expectation he will reach out on Father's Day.
After telling SS about the CPS threat his mother made, SS immediately called up CPS to tell them about it. He said he spoke to someone and they kept it on record that the cow made a threat. He is going to file a RO on his mother. Can you imagine the crapstorm that will create? We are doing the same. Anyone know how long it normally takes? Of course, SS has become ice cold with us again. He said we should stop seeing each other weekends for a while. And he said this through a voicemail. My husband tried calling but SS is not picking up. I hate this.
Man....I have been reading these long vents on here this morning/last couple of weeks and I just cant believe it......I have been a member on here for a while now and everbody ...when I say everybody...I mean everbody's DH have used the same terms/phrases in heated arguments including mine! I know that when people go through things they feel like they are the only ones going through it, but its freaking unreal the stuff us SM/2nd wives have to deal with marrying a man with children. And they all do the same stuff...
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