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Prayers needed please!

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I am bawling my eyes out. And I cannot go anywhere until my husband comes to pick me up for work. I just locked myself in my office so that no one can see. SS called me crying. He was in the hospital with his daughter. The poor baby has a brain tumor near the eye. He said it might look cancerous but surgery is required. He was there all alone and he was upset. I immediately called my husband. We are going to the hospital. I cannot control myself. She is just a baby. She has never hurt anyone. I would give her my life. Please pray for Sarah. Please.

We borrowed the money

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Against all the opinions given and our better judgement, we had to take the money from SS. We really had no choice. We got another medical bill and it was too much to handle with our house payment. I know people will disagree and we hated doing it but we really had no choice. We got rid of everything at home except heating and electricity. I use the internet during my lunch hour and the few minutes before I start work.

Borrowing money from SS

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This is very embarrassing to talk about. We are having major money issues. My husband's health bills are getting too much to handle. And our insurance is a bastard. We even spent the 5000 bucks SS left behind when he moved out. We had put that in an account for our granddaughter but we had no choice but to use it. We have exhausted every resource. All of our friends are struggling too. My husband's employer just cut hours for everyone so we are short by about 200 dollars every month.

Glorified babysitting service?

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After a long time of not even talking to us, SS called today and asked me if we could come to the city and look after his daughter for two days. He will be gone most of the day and his nanny is on vacation. He said we can come if we want or he can leave her with his friends, who are either in their teens or in their twenties. Of course we said yes. My husband has a week off anyway. We have not seen our granddaughter in weeks and we jumped at the chance to see her. And I do not trust his friends.

CPS case was unfounded

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Thank goodness the CPS lady had common sense. The case was unfounded and she said SS was a great father. SS mentioned moving to another state. He wants to go California. But that would mean transferring two schools, no family support from us, nothing. We would be very sad if he chooses to leave. But if it means he can live life in peace, we want him to go. It would make us feel horrible. I would see my granddaughter even less than I do now. Maybe he won't move. He has too many things going on here.

CPS visited SS

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My husband had a falling out with SS over the fourth of july weekend. Since then, communication with SS has been almost non-existent other then a few skype chats where it was just us seeing the baby, no SS. He was prompting her to say stuff but he never spoke to us directly. We just hoped time would help him feel better about us again. The fight was not even provoked by my husband. It is just SS with his anger and trust issues. The moment we get into his life he cuts us out. It is very exhausting for us. But we are sticking to it hoping that SS will come around again.

My life not as great as I thought it was going to be.

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I really thought we were getting somewhere with SS. After taking legal action against his mother to avoid all contact, it got much better. But of course the hag's family had to come harrass SS a bit but that stopped when SS threatened to go to the police. So I assumed that it would be better for all of us. I was wrong. After he disinvited us for the father's day weekend, it has just gone downhill. It all started at the 4th of July weekend. We had gone to SS's apartment to celebrate. Of course, SS finds some reason to get angry at my husband again. This just gets tiring.

One problem disappears and another one pops up.

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The ex-wife has finally stopped all contact with all of us. We had to go the legal route to do this. But now, SS has his mother's family coming after him now instead. They did this once before, bullying him on Facebook. SS had to cancel his Facebook that time. Now, they are sending him emails asking him to forgive his mother, that she is not feeling well. This entire family is SICK! They are all psychos. For this fourth of july, we are going to SS's apartment again. It has been a while since we have seen him and the baby.

Father's Day voicemail

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We were supposed to visit SS this weekend. But after what the ex-wife did, SS is back to avoiding us again. At least he left a voice mail on Sunday. It was of his daughter babbling on the phone while SS was telling her to wish her grandpa happy birthday. It was really cute. She was saying moo moo and baa baa. That is how she calls us now. I am moo moo. It made me really happy. But that was it. SS did not wish my husband happy Father's Day himself. I knew my husband was slightly dissappointed. But at least SS called. I should be happy right?

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