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Honestly, my situation isn't bad. We only have SD7 on holidays and during summer break because BM moved her away. It sucks, but at the same time, it got BM far away from us..
But you know those days where you just drive yourself mad with thoughts of BM?! I think it is especially bad when you don't have children of your own. I want so badly to be a mom, so it's hurtful when the only somewhat child I have, I am not a mother too. So you have times where you just dwell on them and it and the whole situation.
It's enough to make a girl mad.
Our son called Sunday afternoon. He sounded great. Apparently the change in TIs was a good thing for their flight. So far they have had no once recycled. The kid is in contention to be an honors graduate which gives him some extra privileges during graduation week.
He commented again that knowing how to march has been a big asset and now that they have been issued their dress blues and have to shine shoes he is getting a lot of mileage out of the Rags' patented spit shine method that I trained him on when he was in Military school.
I'm ready to disengage its been a long time coming really, ss14 has pushed me too far. How is this supposed to work when I have the skids every other week all summer? Dh isn't crazy about it but I told him I've had enough, if my kids treated him the way his son treats me i would completly back him up. I'm just so sick and tired of the attitude over every little thing no matter what i ask him to do or not do. Dh acts like i'm giving up, I'm not I'm trying to save my sanity.
What a mixed weekend. For one it seems that recently my bf and I this last week or so have been in a bonding frenzy. We are both being extremely affectionate, loving and intimate very frequently. It's one of the "ups" I guess you could say where we are both feeling incredibly connected and can't get enough of eachother. It feels fantastic. This was our "kids free" wknd.
So weekend started off rocky with BM being her usually greedy mean self. MIL also being her usualy rude snotty self. However, DH and I had a wonderful weekend despite them and feel closer than ever.
SD 4 has said lots of things I've found odd. Let me get your opions.
Oh newest info SKids are told BM new DH is daddy and call him papa. Or how ever you'd spell how kids say dad in German!
I want to be at my real house.
My daddy is a bad bad man and does bad things.
I don't want to be with you daddy you broke my mommys hurt and I love her and she loves me more.
My sister is adopted.
My I love my mommy and papa! He's my dad!
So after Easter, when she threw her hands up at me and stared me down I'd have enough. Then the following wkend which was our turn with her children she has the nerve to ask an hour before we pick them up can you get them an hour early. FDH responds with no but you can drop them off befor I'm suppose to get them. Well FDH was in the shower when BM pulled up. SD4 was crying as usual to not come she wants to be at her real house blah blah blah....BM turns around gives me a dirty look won't give the youngest to me and tells SD4 go find daddy. Really WTF is that about? So I sent BM a txt.
It seems after the failure of my bf and my first marriage, it seems that we both have lost our freedom. We have our children thinking they have all the say of our relationship and our parents have the say too, and still the ex's have say. Well not my ex as my child is not my ex's.
My bf's parents won't allow bf and I to date, and neither will his kids allow it. It is good his parents don't live in town. Bm won't allow his parents to be in contact with his children.
I think SS's mother has reached a all time low. I never in my nearly half a decade life thought I would see a mother do this. The bitch has done some evil things before. But this is something else. We have a friend, Nancy, who is also a friend of the ex-wife. Nancy was our friend first and we asked her to be friends with the bitch so we could get updates on SS when he refused contact with us. It was a dirty move but we were deperate and had no choice. Nancy calls me yesterday informing me that my husband's ex-wife lied to SS and told him she had a heart attack and was in the hospital.
Hello, I'm new to this site, been lurking for a while, had a huge fight tonight and still dwelling on it...
I have two bio children with my SO, daughter 5 and son 1. My SO has an 8 yr old daughter whose mother took off when the kid was a few weeks old and hid from him until about 2 yrs ago when his mom found her on facebook.
Although he did tell me about the kid, I never gave it much thought and I guess never realized I would suddenly have a stepdaughter.
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