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I am a 31 year old SM with no biological children my partner is 53, we have been together for 5 years and it has been 6.5 years since his wife passed away of cancer. In the early days of our relationship there were no issues with the new family dynamics but over the last 8 months or so things have drastically changed. My partner also has a 21 year old daughter. I found around the anniversary of the BM death my SS has changed the way he treats me.
Sorry it's been a while since i've written, things have been rather hectic. Here's an update on my step parenting experience. We got custody April 18, 2008 because the biological mother is a piece of shit. We've had all kinds of issues to where she finally ended up getting supervised visitations. She still continued drinking and made our lives hell every chance she got. She told our original custody lawyer that she would get even with my husband by having my step daughter (who is 14 now) say that her father molested her.
When does CS offically stop being paid to BM? Is there a general guideline-I understand it's probably based on which state you live in, but was just curious. I'd like to start a countdown... 
It's been a bit crazy! My fil passed away the beginning of this month and life has been turned upside down since. I've missed this site and reading everyone's blogs. I hope you all have been doing good! But I'm back again to vent. Next weekend my looooong summer with ss starts, so expect me on here more! Anyway, this weekend we had ss13 for FD weekend. I don't know what it is, but when ss is around, dd6 and ds4 fight with each other A LOT more. All last week they played well together and we were all enjoying our summer. This weekend they fought non-stop.
Sorry I got up, gave you a great present, made a cute certificate for you from our son...did my nails, gave you a break to hamg out w/your friends while I entertained our son...and did my nails & hair, let you pick out your favorite dress so we could have a nice day together...but as always you get in a crappy mood because your pathetic daughter doesn't call you, so instead you decide to get drunk & then blame me because I no longer want to go out w/you & our son to celebrate father's day...sorry it's your right to get drunk on father's day and I'm just a witch that doesn't want
I would compare my blended family to two companies that are merging together. This was brought to my attention by one of my bosses who referred to an employee at the bank I work for as an evil step child. Of course at the time I laughed my ass off. As I thought about it more it occurred to me that I'm going through the same process at work as I am at home. My husband and I are the owners and our kids are the employees. We made the decision to merge two "companies” together and the "employees" are not happy.
Ok y is sd doing everything in her power to make today all about her. she won't listen to her dad when ever he says something about her behavior or lack of. all she response with is my mom let's me do it. we keep telling her that her mom doesn't live here and her rules only apply to their house. not over here but she tends to think that her mom rules the world. well I have a surprise for them both cause I'm fed up of miss princess. My hubby told her if she can't listen then maybe she should spend the rest of the summer with her mom.
Soooo, After last night, DH told SD that if he found ANY dirty dishes, she was gonna wash them ALL. Well, DH goes looking and finds yup, you guessed it, dirty dishes, so, he makes SD pull them all out of the cabinets and sends her to bed (IT was midnight before she got the 4 days worth of dishes done.) This morning, DH and I get up and guess what, dishes havent been touched, and SD is in her room playing.
Ok don't know if I'm posting this right lol
I have a step son who is 4. Me and my partner got together before he was even born, he was the result of a one night stand. My partner told me about him after us being together s month so I had the chance to get out and mist if the time I wish I had!
We have recently had a baby boy he is 7monthd old who is my world.
This is my first time posting on this site and with everything going on i need to both vent and get advice.
My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We love each other very much. The issues are with BM and SD5 and SS7.
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