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I had to write SS6 a note for school explaining why he had been absent yesterday (he was sick). As I was putting the note into his folder, I saw that BM had written a check to the school for lunch $$. No problems there, right? Wrong! The check was written on an account that was in both BM and her DH’s name, but here’s the kicker – her name was still listed as ‘BM DH’s last name’. She signed the check with that name too. Wtf, seriously?! This idiot has been re-married for almost FOUR YEARS. She has legally changed her last name and uses it on all other documents.
So, I know many here are not fans of FB. That's cool, but I am.
DH's kids have both extended friendship with me there. I am no too ignorant to realize that BM is likely viewing my page through theirs. I have my information secure...my friends list is hidden. My family is hidden. My work & contact information is hidden, as is most all of my other information she doesn't need to see.
So FDH have been discussing my future last name... As we are planning our wedding... I really want to take on his BUT I do NOT want to have to share my future last name with his ex wife - who says she's never changing it. I have to share too much shit with her already and I don't think that she should be allowed to keep it. If I was her and was divorced I couldn't wait to get rid of my exs name!
So FDH have been discussing my future last name... As we are planning our wedding... I really want to take on his BUT I do NOT want to have to share my future last name with his ex wife - who says she's never changing it. I have to share too much shit with her already and I don't think that she should be allowed to keep it. If I was her and was divorced I couldn't wait to get rid of my exs name!
My first entry. I don't really know where to start. My second marriage, husband's fifth.....should have been a red flag!! He has four grown SD's, three who do not talk to me. I don't know if I can even talk about how bad things really are.
Okay so 8:30 am I get a knock on our door and the police and DCF are standing there…. The SS’s BM called and filed a neglect claim on ME. I am the one taking care of HER f***ING KIDS every day. She sees them 4 times a month. I am a stay at home mom, so I am here every day when they get home from school, cook all of their meals, do their laundry, wake them up for school and every other little thing they need. She is all pissy because I called the police on ss15#1 because he was beating up ss15#2 last week.
I've always known that I wanted children, but I never fantasized about being married in the same way. I never planned my dream wedding, never spent much imagination on a husband figure. I always just assumed I'd somehow have kids, even if a father wasn't in the picture.
But when you love someone, you get married, right? I thought that with my ex-fiance. I still think it when I look at FDH and I know that despite his divorce, FDH still very much wants to be married and have more children. But lately, I've been thinking that we could maybe have a baby before getting married.
We knew this was going to happen. This is the 10th move for the kids in 4 years. Of course she has a new baby daddy and she left him...she wants that money. I guess she is going to get it. She won't even have to work now. She's a good role model for all three kids...GREAT. And that means the oldest child that I already want to kick in the butt when she comes around is going to be in an even more horrid rotten mood. This is JUST great.
My SS11 came home tonight and told me that he had won his baseball game. I didn't even know he had a game. I told him good job but when was your game? He said it was on Monday and then he told me that him mom didn't want me to go. I just don't understand why she has to act like that in front of my SS11. It just gives him more reason to not like me or even listen to me. How can I ever bond with him if she is always saying comments to him that are negative. Shouldn't she just be happy that there is someone else that loves and supports him. I just don't get it.
Just wondering, if this upsets anyone as much as it upsets me. My skids arent terrors and ever nasty to me, but they really just dont seem to care about me at all. They say Please and Thank you. Yes they can be brats sometimes they are 8 & 11.
They just dont want to bond or seem to care about me at all. They arent affectionate kids at all, they dont even hug grandparents or extended family. i come from a very affectionate family and very close and we express how we feel. so for me i take it personally and feel rejected.
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