My SD9 still wets the bed, I think it is bc she is lazy. So we buy night panties bc I don't want to have bedding that I have to wash every freaking day. It is her responsibility to let me know when she only has 2 night panties left, I don't wear them she does. It is also her responsibility to get up in the morning and put them in the trash, I don't pee in them and she can do it herself, she is nine for crying out loud! Our doctor say it would not be a good idea to put her on medication even tho I think we should. She, the doctor, keeps telling us she will out grow it. When? When she is 20?

I have yet in the past ten years, and skids are older, ever have gotten a birthday greeting. I would think as they get older they would get it. Maybe this year I will not acknowledge theirs - so that means no gifts or money.

So selfish.

I called into work yesterday & spent the day running errands with DH. We hit the unemployment office first thing & got his paperwork filled out. We did a couple of things at the bank, & then went to the Social Security Admin to request copies of the kids SS cards. F.A.I.L.

DH had his DL, SS card, & birth certificate. We had court papers to prove the kids were his. They wouldn't accept the court papers as proof. I said, "We just sent off for their birth certificates. I guess we'll be back when they come". They don't accept those either. WTF???

I've been a step mom for almost six years to two amazing boys. I respect them and love them and they spend 50% of their time with us. Times have been tough, as it was not easy at the beginning - I was an outsider and not at all wanted by mom. Mom left the relationship but didn't expect "him" to find someone new. I tolerated the abuse for many years. Years of telling the kids how horrible I and their dad was. How dad left the marriage - was not true. How dad is not important and how they should not be with us. I was called stupid and that I was not liked and the boys didn't belong here.