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vent! has nothing to do with skids.....boobs do come up so beware

marissamae88's picture

OMG I am soooo sick of my job!!!!!!! My boobs are an F cup and it is extremely hard to cover them up because regardless of what I do you still know they are huge so really there is no hiding them. My manager comes up to me to tell me I dress inappropriately?? Really I do? Last week I saw my coworker wearing a corona tank top yes tank top and the other coworker wearing a playboy bunny t shirt but my vneck t shirts and jeans are a bad idea?? We are a very very very casual office. No dress code or anything there is only like 4 of us working here.

I love this man

High Road Lynn's picture

He is a good man. He loves his children. He loves me. He is able to let things go. I wish I could be more like him. He resembles Mother Theresa in his attitude.

I fell in love with him 23 years ago but was afraid of those feelings. I chose a different path. A path of abuse and of sadness. But I over came that and have two beautiful children. He chose the same path and over came it with two beautiful children. We found each other. Fell in love all over again and we are happy. Our children are happy. Mine love him and his children love me but... his ex hates me.

Dh's stupid logic about why I should treat ss as my own- hilarious!

Tx mommy of 3's picture

First let me start by saying that dh is constanty upset at me because I don't treat ss 'as my own'. Sorry, but when a kid doesn't want anything to do with my family, didn't visit his own dad for 3 years...it's kinda hard to treat him as my own. Maybe if I didn't have my own bios or ss didn't have a mom or ss always visited...maybe. Anyway, dh always says dice I married him I should treat ss like he was mine. Also, s/n...sil is engaged to a man with twin preteen girls. They are really good with our kids and I kinda like them- because thy aren't mine! However, those girls are wild!

I'm just want to run away

Jadie poos's picture

Me and my partner haven't spoken since yesterday afternoon because in a row I again told him how I felt. Am I meant to just put up with this awlful feeling of not being able to Bond with my SS4 forever ??? Will it ever get better, I know every situation is different but it seems to me like its the same for most on here, if your a step mum your the wicked step mother. He's only 4 its going to get so much worse !!!! I just wana run away with my baby and start again somewhere new Sad

Father's Day...

herewegoagain's picture

Maybe the best answer is for us to all realize that father's day is also about the kids of divorce & every other holiday too. What a mistake to ever think we could have a decent family when every mood swing my DH has is directly related to the idiot

i don't know if I should just stop caring and make my own life, while staying here...if i had a Job, i'd be gone...but until that happens maybe i should focus only on my son and let DH & his pathetic ex & kid live their lives.

So glad Father's Day is over!!

cmwolfe1264's picture

I'm so glad that Father's Day is over. I had to spend it watching my husband sleep the day away because he was depressed because none of his children came to see him. His daugher did invite him to her house for a brunch but he told me he did not want to go. I think it is because we had to drive to a party on Saturday which took a full tank of gas and it would have taken another full tank to go see his daughter on Sunday and he didn't want to spend the $$.

concerns confirmed, BF still doesn't see it

SisterNeko's picture

I have always had concerns about BF's kids when it came to the thought of us having a baby. Not that we are trying or anything but you never know what is going to happen. I have told him that I want to wait for a lot of reasons and if we were to have an 'oops' we should consider all of our options. He LOVES kids and I think he would have another right now if I would go along with it. But the main reason I want to want is his current kids, SS4 and SS6. They have some issues that I think need to be worked on before you bring a baby into the picture.

Father's Day voicemail

winnie's picture

We were supposed to visit SS this weekend. But after what the ex-wife did, SS is back to avoiding us again. At least he left a voice mail on Sunday. It was of his daughter babbling on the phone while SS was telling her to wish her grandpa happy birthday. It was really cute. She was saying moo moo and baa baa. That is how she calls us now. I am moo moo. It made me really happy. But that was it. SS did not wish my husband happy Father's Day himself. I knew my husband was slightly dissappointed. But at least SS called. I should be happy right?

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