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i dont know what to do

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My SS11 has a baseball game tomorrow night and its an hout away so my DH has to leave before I get off work to get there and wants me to meet him there so he doesn't has to "deal" with BM. Ok that being said DH only went to one of my bio's football games last yr because I had to work (I got a part-time job because DH has to pay so much CS I didn't want our family to struggle). I had to beg him to do it. Now DH expects me to go to every single basball game but I don't think its fair that I should HAVE to go because he says so.

Another month of stressing

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So yesterday we called the Judge's office to schedule another court date. That's when we found out that BM and her lawyer should up on Tuesday and they scheduled the new court date. I don't know how things work but I thought that since we filed that we would get to set the new date. They scheduled it for another month away after her move date. I'm just afraid that she's going to move and we are going to be out of luck. I know that we are kind-of screwed anyway going in without a lawyer but I know we are doing the right thing. A whole month of stressing out is not what I need right now.

More waiting

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We had our big court date tomorrow but the judge's office called at 4:50pm tonight to say that the judge has a family emergency and we will need to reschedule. Weeks of stressing and trying to get everything in order. I can't believe this. They also said that they can't get a hold of BM's lawyer. All numbers are disconnected. Great. Here come the nasty text messages tomorrow. At least I can get more time to get everything perfect. (We are defending ourselves). I just hope that she doesn't move before we get to court.

Really?!

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My DH and I filed paperwork to either stop BM from moving the Skids again or she can move and we would get custody with her having visitation. Seems simple to me. Wrong! I should have known that this wasn't going to be easy. All we wanted for the skids was a stable home where they didn't have to keep starting over. If she can provide that then great but she moves homes and schools every couple of years. Everytime they move they I can see a change in them. Everytime she takes us to court its for more money and then she always throws it in my face that she doesn't need DH's money.

What the Hey

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My SS11 came home tonight and told me that he had won his baseball game. I didn't even know he had a game. I told him good job but when was your game? He said it was on Monday and then he told me that him mom didn't want me to go. I just don't understand why she has to act like that in front of my SS11. It just gives him more reason to not like me or even listen to me. How can I ever bond with him if she is always saying comments to him that are negative. Shouldn't she just be happy that there is someone else that loves and supports him. I just don't get it.