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Question?
Who wants to have sex more, you or your SO/DH/BF etc...
Just curious for me it's my DH, I would say he would be good with 5 -6 days a week and I would be good with 3-4 so not a huge difference but them more I talk with my girlfriends the more I am hearing it's the women who want it more. It makes me wonder with women taking on so many roles today are we looking at it like men do as a way to unwind or are men wanting it less? Anyway appreciate your responses.
Thanks
I am frustrated with SS and Hubby is downright angry. All weekend long we saw SS pretty much ignoring anything that we told him to do until he was told several times. Example: one of his jobs is to take the dog out in the afternoon. Yesterday, I was painting our house and I asked him if he had done it yet and he hadn't, so I told him to. He went inside and never came back out with the dog. I went inside and he was watching TV. Or, Hubby told him he could not have cookies because we were about to eat and next thing he knows, the kids is eating cookies.
I am counting down the days and can feel my blood pressure rising all ready. My husband is trying to get mon. and tues. off work to help transition him into a summer routine, hopefully that will help. I am just so anxious and worried about how this summer is going to work out. Last summer was bad and ss7 has gotten increasingly worse in behavior since then. So it will be me, my baby and ss7 almost all summer by ourselfs while my husband works mon-fri 3-11, I am already nausous.
Hi gals! I'm in desperate need of advice. My sd12 who has ben giving me absolutely, positively a hard time since Christmas. Only following rules for a little but after she is lectured about the rules. Then she is back to being lazy, not listening, doing only what she wants even though I know what she is doing...she is getting ready to go to her bm for the summer.
The question I need help with is whether she gets out to do the activities that she ask.. She wants to go out for cheerleading but I don't think she deserves it...
FDH brought FSD3 over for a visit yesterday and she was pretty well-behaved the whole time. During a sweet moment when she was cuddling with me while her dad sat beside us while we looked at my scrapbook, she saw a pictures of me at Disneyland when I was a kid and from when I was a teenager.
FSD3: Oh, I'm going to Disneland, too. Daddy is taking me. [Pauses]. Mommy wants to take me. [Looks at FDH]. Daddy isn't sharing me with Mommy. That's bad.
FDH: [Ignores comment or was legitimately tuned out, plays with cell phone].
I've been wanting a larger home, the one we have is very small, its 2 bedrooms livingroom kitchen bathroom and a small laundry room. no basement. When Stain was here before I really wanted more room. there isn't privacy here when more than my husband and I are here. We jokingly call it our detached apartment. I am SO thankful the house isn't any bigger. Husband KNOWS Stain is eventually going to want to bounce back here and since I get to work from home when I've been at my job for atleast 6 months I'm going to need that second room for WORK which means Stain can't come back.
We had our big court date tomorrow but the judge's office called at 4:50pm tonight to say that the judge has a family emergency and we will need to reschedule. Weeks of stressing and trying to get everything in order. I can't believe this. They also said that they can't get a hold of BM's lawyer. All numbers are disconnected. Great. Here come the nasty text messages tomorrow. At least I can get more time to get everything perfect. (We are defending ourselves). I just hope that she doesn't move before we get to court.
I am one, and have legally been one for 15 years.
I read about a lot of the adult SDs on here and I shake my head. I have empathy for the tough cards they've been dealt. Some of them have had bioparents who weren't always there for them. I have empathy for the tough cards anyone is dealt. However, getting dealt tough cards doesn't justify rude behavior and actions. Oprah had a tough childhood, and look how well she has done in her life.
I am so frustrated. My SO and I have been together for over 2 years and the entire time has been a struggle with his ex over divorce and custody. Our day had finally come, our final hearing was set for the end of this month...it was like the light at the end of the tunnel! Unfortunately we just received an email from attorney stating that since EX has not turned in her CFI paperwork, the CFI asked for an extension to get her investigation done and they are pushing it back AGAIN!! The new date they gave us is January 4th!
I've been waiting to start a new cycle so I can finally get on birth control. Eek!
I took a test this morning and this afternoon and it looks like there's a slight pink line! But I don't know if my eyes are playing tricks on me. Even the lightest pink is a positive. Ughhhhhhhh....
And all I have are internet cheapies and I can't go to the store to get the expensive tests.
http://www.canyouseealine.com/view_home_pregnancy_test.php?testID=12404
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