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I am glad to say that today was better. I think she woke up in a better mood, but I think my SD may be on the Autism spectrum. I have made this comment to my husband, but he says that since I am a psychologist/social worker (veterans, not children), I am specifically looking for things and I am not looking a the whole picture. I know that she is ADD, but I think she may on the spectrum.
I'd like to take a moment to update everyone on what's been going on in our house since "the block". I know that there were several different opinions when I posted my previous blog as far as me treating DH like a child, looking insecure, etc.
I read alot of posts on here and although I can empathize, I dont often relate because as blended families go, I have one of the better situations. I am pretty lucky as I dont get alot of crap from the two BM's in my life and I have decent to excellent relationships with my step daughters. However let me tell you a bit about BM of SD14.
It does matter to me this week if its my x or my DH........they are all out there some where this week and it does not seem that they are on planet earth.
So yesterday I get a text from my wife asking if I could watch my SD21's son since she has a dr's appointment. Now I've NEVER had a problem watching him if she has an appointment to go to, so I said sure. Come to find out it wasn't really a dr's appointment, but it was the first procedure in a 6-step process of getting her stretchmarks removed. The idiot she is dating was stupid enough to pay about $2500 for her to get this done, so her first procedure was last night.
my brother in law and his son showed up this week. now he gave little notice.so here i am cleaning house up and so on so everyone is comfortable.then had to deal with MIL crap.its been a few days and now all it seems is we watching his kid while he works. fine ok but noone asked me!
Ok, so my 13 year old sd got a laptop computer for christmas two years ago and she is allowed (by her father) to keep the computer in her room. She can get on any time she wants to. Here in the past 6 months she has been saying things on facebook that are not appropriate for a 13 year old to say. She has also been adding friends that she does not know and from what I have gather talks on the cell phone with them.
SD7 came for her summer visit with the phone as promised. My DH always picks her up alone because I don't want anything to do with BM or her crazy mom. 10 minutes into the drive to our hotel, SD had already made and received 5 phone calls! She was so excited about the phone, what little girl wouldn't be? We had a long drive, over 10 hours to our state, so DH and I decided to let her have free reign of the phone during the trip. BIG MISTAKE. That first day there were 48 freaking phone calls made and received, between BM, BM's mom, BM's sister, and BM's boyfriend. 48 phone calls!
BM Redneck has invited us (SO, SS8, SD7 & myself) to attend SD’s (now 14) birthday party at her house on July 30th (her birthday is today). SO was told by BM Redneck that SD14 said “they (we) won’t bother showing up because Anywho hates me so my dad won’t bother coming because of HER…I HATE HER!!”…
Okay I need advice on what we need to do if we are changing our visitation with SS3.
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