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Not even an hour after I posted my earlier blog about BM texting me yesterday from SD12's phone, I get a text from BM (on her own phone, lol)
The conversation reads as follows...
BM: U need to leave my name out of ur mouth especially when it comes to SD12. U need to worry about ur own kid instead of leaving a 7 year old home by himself. U also need to take care of ur husband so he don't go wondering like he has
Me: Why are you trying to start crap
BM: It's the truth. Worry about ur life not mine
Me: My life is fine. Ur the one stirring things up
I'm very fortunate to have a wonderful mother in law to be. I absolutely love that women and with good reason. She is a sweet, supportive, giving, caring, understanding person who hates the ex-wife with all her might. (that's a bonus for me! lol) I hate to say this but I would have rather had her as a mother then the one I actually have.
I have a question about Father's Day gift giving and step children. BM claims (and I intend to check one day when I am bored and have nothing better to do but read over their divorce) that the divorce says they HAVE to get each other gifts from the kids on Mother's Day, Father's day, Birthday's and Xmas. I think it's stupid and I plan to get BF something from ME and the boys, even though BM already gave him a gift 'from the boys'. So my question is would I be crossing a line there?
I posted right after Easter how things had started looking up in our little piece of the world, trying to spread some optimism. I’m sure plenty of seasoned SMs had a good little snort over that one. Well, after our little roll of good weekends and productive talks with SO about his guilty, permissive Daddying, things did go well for awhile, but then kind of sputtered out.
We just got a voicemail from the statanic ex-wife herself saying that she was afraid for SS's daughter's safety and will be contacting CPS soon. WHAT A BITCH!! We are so afraid to tell SS because he might shut himeslf off from us again. Just when we were getting better. We have been to see SS every weekend so far. I was wondering why she was so quiet. The hag must have been coming up with ways to harm her own son all this while. ARGH! I HATE HATE HATE THAT WOMAN!
Ok, so we're not together anymore. We've talked a LOT these past few days, and I've still gone to his house to hang out. I adore his kids, and his 2yo adores me. he's always climbing on me and hugging me if he's gone even one day without seeing me. it's funny and cute all at the same time. J has also started not spoiling his son as much. he still lets Z sleep with him, but is much more willing to stand up to Z when 2yo acts jealous. I was over there last friday, and J went to take a nap, leaving me up with Z. this was HUGE. he's NEVER done that before.
}:) }:) }:) my FH was married before and has custody of my SS6, also i haveMy BD5, we all live together. Yes i have drama with Bio mom BUT,, i feel like my FH's mother is a jealous, nasty, spitful BITCH!! and i just cant swallow all the shit she dishes out to me. First i am going to appoligize for all the cursing im about to do, but i need you all to FEEL my fustration. Ive been together with my FH for 3 years, a lot of drama with his x wife but im slowly accepting a lot of it and he has totaly gotten his balls back when it comes to his xwife.
So now I see why some moms are glad when summer is over...I never felt that way with my BioD but now having SS7 I understand. First day and he starts on my instantly. What could I have possibly done other than be in the house, oh wait that's right, that's all it takes.
Fathers day is next weekend. I got my Fiancee a card and a Philadelphia Eagles window sticker to go on his truck that he said he wanted. I spent a total of 15 bucks on his ass and I'm glad because honestly he's lucky he got THAT from me. I didn't have a nice mothers day myself this year. He gave me nothing only said "happy mothers day". I mean sheeh I know his little brat didn't come out of my vagina, thank god!!! but I still helped him raise that little shit since she was 3!! I should have at least gotten a card!!
Dear God when will it end!
Sunday morning around 10am I spoke to SD12, told her I was heading to that end of town soon and that DH would be leaving for the track with DS7 in about an hour. SD12 said she would go as BM if she could go and would text/call back.
An hour went by with DH and myself calling and texting her with no response.
Around 12:30ish I get a response from SD12's phone saying "she said no"
I respond right away with "That figures. Im so sorry sweetie. Try to enjoy your day okay."
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