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Based on yesterday I am pretty sure we will not be hearing much from ss21. After Saturday when he comes to get some of his crap out of our house he will have not much use for me or DH. Now all about mooching from BM. So since DH and I have cut him off financially I really do not think he will have much use for us.
Very sad and I feel sorry for DH. Have a very low expectation he will reach out on Father's Day.
After telling SS about the CPS threat his mother made, SS immediately called up CPS to tell them about it. He said he spoke to someone and they kept it on record that the cow made a threat. He is going to file a RO on his mother. Can you imagine the crapstorm that will create? We are doing the same. Anyone know how long it normally takes? Of course, SS has become ice cold with us again. He said we should stop seeing each other weekends for a while. And he said this through a voicemail. My husband tried calling but SS is not picking up. I hate this.
Man....I have been reading these long vents on here this morning/last couple of weeks and I just cant believe it......I have been a member on here for a while now and everbody ...when I say everybody...I mean everbody's DH have used the same terms/phrases in heated arguments including mine! I know that when people go through things they feel like they are the only ones going through it, but its freaking unreal the stuff us SM/2nd wives have to deal with marrying a man with children. And they all do the same stuff...
I will hold my tongue...Even if it hurts.. 
FDH's ex called this morning to go pick up FSD3 from daycare at 8:45 AM because FSD3 was complaining that its itchy when she pees. When he didn't pick up, she called HIS mom to go get FSD3. For once, FMIL exhibited restraint by calling FDH FIRST to ask if it was OK -- so that part I'm not mad about.
my stepson is making me crazy!!!!!! i just cant do it anymore! i cant wait until he leaves. it seems like forever. he hasnt even been here a month. he is beyond annoying. he talks in a baby voice which kills me. and all he wants to do is play damn video games all day. i dont allow it when his dad is not home. he probably thinks im the biggest bitch, but at this point i dont really care. im not mean with him. i want to be but im not. im not that mean! since hes been here i have huge migraines every single day. his voice just makes me clench.
Ladies, this weekend I had to do a grueling upgrade--I'm a Applications Developer and we've been working on this thing for 2 years as a team. The rollout started Friday at 5pm, we are still at it--the "Users" or "Customers" will get the system on Wednesday. Can we say rock-n-roll with the problems then. Well a lot of the time these last few days has been hurry up and wait, and you ladies kept me entertained. I mean the SD took my van out--I know because the seat was moved forward was priceless--the nerve of the brat.
Someone made a comment about liability for continuing education that worried me. I did some case law studies investigation and found this:
I wish I had someone to walk through this with me...
I have gone to see a prenatal specialist who arranged an appointment with a social worker. I explained the exact situation to the specialist who used to work in a domestic violence division and she said me pushing, was not DV. I'll be visiting with the social worker to figure out my next move. 12/13 hour drive to Phoenix is a long one to make alone and it sounds as if my mom may not be able to come here after all. I'm scared, I'm exhuasted and I'm so incredibly confused.
I feel stupid for rushing into this.
I've had words with my dh tonight and feel bad about it. My 3 ss's live with us full time, with bm getting regular contact. They're not bad kids, but have certain behaviours and habits which I find very irritating and hard to live with. Dh is normally good at discipline and doesn't take any crap from them, and their behaviour has improved a lot in the last couple of years as it used to be appalling.