Is it that these women who are married to friends and co-workers worried that they'll get divorced? Is it that hard to see someone move on and let their adult children move out and on? We are on a couples only vacation and we had to stop for FDH to do some work at the university of Wyoming. The couple here we are staying with put us in the sun room...all windows no curtains and everyone in the house can see in the room.

After some disengagement on my part over the last several weeks, meaning SO's total immersion with SD6 on the weekends, her whining, cloying, complaining ways even got on SO's last nerve. Then finally a couple weekends ago SO witnessed her ignoring me when I spoke to her, and although it was a relatively minor incident compared to other instances, it made him realize that I was not making this shit up that she has been disrespectful and has been acting like she out-and-out dislikes me. He thinks it's BM poisoning her against me.

So we got a new car for the wife about 3 weeks ago. I told her before we got it that if she was going to allow SD21 to drive around in it like she did the last car (over 25,000 miles in just 9 months) then there is no point in getting a brand new car, we should just get a used one. She swore up and down that won't be the case. But of course I should have known better.

I know it is a question in bad taste, but I never actually thought about it. My SIL told me that BM is in the hospital again and it is not looking good. People have been saying she has cancer, pnemonia and some do not even know. But she is in the hospital for sure. BM has been sick before but we never knew. MIL knew but she never told us. So now SS resents us for not helping. That is what I think.