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My DH is thinking about getting a job overseas. I said okay whatever you want to do to make more money for us. But I told him think about it because you won't see your son or us while your over there. DH told me when its my time to have my SS4 to go pick him up but I said why do that if your not even here for SS4 to see you.I don't want my SS4 here while you are not, he visits you not me.
my answer is no....and that SUCKS! SS6 has been here since Tuesday (at 630am with pajamas and a damn pull up on...BM is really a GREAT mom to keep a 6 year old in pull ups) and doesnt go home until this coming Tuesday. He has done nothing but fight us on everything we say, not eat when told to, pushed his 1 year old brother into a bookcase for touching a toy, and back talked me and his dad all week. I am so ready for the week to be over it isnt even funny.
So glad I found a place to vent!! I can't stand my almost 18 good for nothing step daughter! She doesnt live with us for now but she barely graduated high school n my husband always feels bad cuz her mother died n gives in to her when she says he is a bad dad. He didn't really raise her because he separated from her Mom when she was a year old n so they are constantly at each others throat! She is lazy does horrible in school bad mouths everyone n Im sorry but she is not academically challenged she is stupid! I have 3 kids n one on the way ...
Well, this is my first time blogging, so bear with me if I seem to ramble.
I have been a step-mother for almost 4 years now. I have a unique situation. I have been more of a 'real' mother to my step-children than their biological mother.
My husband's ex-wife left him and their 2 children for another man when the youngest one was 6 months old. Not knowing what to do, my husband went to live with his parents with his 2 children until he could figure out his next move.
My SS18 swears when he is talking to DW all the time and she doesn't bat an eye. He drops the f-bomb like its nothing. I certainly don't expect to hear "no ma'am" come out of his mouth but "f*ck no"?? I am expecting him to say "pass the f*cking gravy" at the dinner table one of these days. Is this a "normal teenage" thing to do? DW seems to think that it is harmless and he will grow out of it. I feel like it is extremely disrespectful and I have told him that he should not get in the habit of using language like that. The comment went unheeded.
It was my fault, I was getting the feeling he felt that way and I asked him. I just wasn't prepared for him to admit it. I want another child maybe not right now but someday, he doesn't so the pregnancy I just lost was an accident. I mean I knew he didn't want another child but it hurts me that since we were he was relieved we lost it. I wouldn;t have been thrilled with the timing but I would have accepted that I was pregnant and then embraced the joy.
I'm so sick of teenagers... and we have one still to go!!! I think I'm going to have a coronary before it's over. SS15 is with DH's parents this weekend. All weekend, he's been on his facebook by way of cell phone lamenting his bad fortune that he can't talk to his little slut gf... GET OVER IT!! Then, he has the drama to say "it sux not having anyone to talk to." HELLO! Just because GF has fun when you're gone does not mean youhave no one to talk to. She's not waiting by the phone, be happy hthat she has a life! Why does he wantwant little hold on his every word?
Hello to any reading this. I’m a step-mom of 12 soon to be 13 yr old girl. Her father and I have been living together, not yet married, for 9 years. She doesn’t live with us, she lives with her aunt 2 hours away. Allow me to give some background on this situation. My “husband”, who shall be called “J”was never married to the girls mother, who shall be called“A”. They had a very brief relationship in during which she cheated on him with no less than 3 guys. J and A were very young and J was on probation when they met for something he did 2 years before they met.
Two weeks of living in a hotel, yuck!!
I have "S", and so far she is doing wonderfully. We arrived at my house Thursday evening with me driving one hellaciously large Uhaul. To be truthful it was not that big but it sure felt like I was driving a mack truck.
So SD16 is canniving and manipulative and lies. Basically, she is just like her Bio-mom. In the last 6 years that DH and I have been together, we have had our ups and downs but I have never felt like her and I have really clicked. One minute she loves me and the next she is telling DH that I am mean and that I throw stuff at her. DH has sided with me on things in the past but it is becoming increasingly hard to talk to him about these problems because he doesn't want to deal with it. He has gone as far as telling me that I just need to figure it out and make up with her. This is not right.
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