Welcome to the StepTalk Blogs!
Create your own personal blog and start sharing what's on your mind. Blogs are your own personal space for venting, asking questions, sharing your experiences, posting your favorite recipes, discussing your favorite shows, etc. This is your space to use as you please. You can manage your own blog posts as well as control the commenting on them.
When posting blogs, remember to add meaningful tags to your posts in order to help others find your blog posts when searching. This also helps you find your blogs later. Tags are fully searchable and allow you to organize your blogs.
Start your blog now!
Recent Blog Posts
Well, it is my husband's BD tomorrow. We are technically "on vacation" but the cell number is not changed. But I don't expect that even SS will be big enough to call his Dad to wish him a Happy BD. I am rather annoyed with him anyways from this other mess from SD and his lies, rather than being honest. And SD will not talk to my husband, unless he apologizes. He has said, hell will freeze over first, as he did nothing wrong. And he is now absolutely furious, after the defammation incident, saying she just completely crossed the line.
I thought this was pretty funny and I really appreciated it because it's been a while since anything like this happened.
My boyfriend's daughter went to a party on Saturday with her biomom (on our weekend) and then she had to work from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. When we picked her up she wanted us to stop and get her a calzone, which we did (we had already had dinner earlier). We went home and my boyfriend told his daughter that he would be waking her up around 11:00 a.m. the next morning to spend some time with her before she had to go to work at 5:00 p.m. Well, 11:00 a.m. the next day he woke her up and she screamed at him telling him she was tired and to leave her alone.
It's late and I finally have some time to myself to try and get these toxins out of my mind so I can sleep.
Oldest Sd (17) flew out today. She had to go home (from her visit with daddy) early for colorguard camp.
Hi all,
Well, if I were in the UK, I'd be saying, "bloody hell, I've had my husband underfoot for 2 days, with 8 more to go! He is on vacation from work and will be home with me so this should be pretty interesting. I sent him out to go swimming a couple of hours ago to keep him busy. I'm not used to having him around like this and it will probably drive me over the edge by lunchtime tomorrow.
I stumbled upon this sight while surfing the internet and I couldn't believe how many people go through the same grief that my family is going through.
A little background information on my family. I have been married to my husband for 14 years and his ex-wife has been a thorn in our side from day one. I have a 21 year old SS and a 19 year old SD and a 10 year old BS.
i have been married for a little over four years and before my husband and i met I had five children of my own that I was raising alone then we had three together and after we moved in together he started bringing his two sons from his previous marriage around to get aquainted with my five but by then I had already given birth to our first son together anyway when my husband would bring his sons to my house I would try my hardest to be a great stepmom always giving ideas on family outings and activites for us to do together etc.
Well, my boyfriend's daughter came as scheduled yesterday afternoon after summer school. She stormed into the house, could barely say hello (only after her father asked if she was going to say hello) went in her room and pouted. My daughter passed her driver's test and came home. The daughter then sprang alive and went to the store with my daughter (again, against my wishes - she is supposed to be grounded).
im so frustered i love my sd i shouldnt have to feel guilty for loving her when she was here this whole summer i took good care of her she was never sick when she had nightmares i was right their for her.
i bought her her birthday gifts.
i cheered her up when she was sad cause her bm didnt call her like she said she would.
i gave her love and attention when she craved it here iam the one who gets all the harshness from bm.
I hope I'm not the only feeling this way. It's been 6 yrs now that stepson is in my life and for some reason, I can't love this child. We see him 8 times a month and for some reason I can't interact with this child all the time or love him the way I would love my nieces and nephews or like my daughter. Is it because I don't have a good standing relationship with his biomom? Does that have an effect on my feelings & behavior towards this child? Or maybe because this child hardly interacts with me, not even a "hello" from him when he sees me.
Pages
