My boyfriend's daughter went to a party on Saturday with her biomom (on our weekend) and then she had to work from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. When we picked her up she wanted us to stop and get her a calzone, which we did (we had already had dinner earlier). We went home and my boyfriend told his daughter that he would be waking her up around 11:00 a.m. the next morning to spend some time with her before she had to go to work at 5:00 p.m. Well, 11:00 a.m. the next day he woke her up and she screamed at him telling him she was tired and to leave her alone. She had no problem on Saturday getting up when she was going out with mom. We had planned to have a barbecue (ribs - her favorite) and spend time with her at the pool. It escalated from there. When she did get up she slammed the bathroom door - that's when I said something and she started screaming at me telling me to mind my business... It is my business - it's my house. Her father and her then went round and round and he told her to pack her room and he was calling her mother - he told her she was no longer allowed at our house - she didn't want a father, didn't appreciate either one of us, was extremely disrespectful and spoiled rotten and until she grows up, she can stay with her mother. He also told her that whenever she is around she makes everyone miserable - carrying on like a two-year-old and pouting when she didn't get her way and she never, ever apologizes for anything because it is never her fault...It was a little extreme and I was upset, but my boyfriend said it would wake her up and until her mother stopped interferring with discipline, etc., it was never going to end.