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Mother in Law has a HUGE picture of Birth Mom & Dad on living room wall

Princess96's picture

Hi Everyone,
My hubby's mother has this HUGE picture of him and his child's mother on her living room wall. It really drives me bonkers every time I go over there. The picture was taken well before his son was born. His son is 6 now. She has another picture of hubby, mother, and son but it is in the foyer with tons of other pictures, that one doesn't bother me much. She has pictures everywhere of the family and she does have a small wallet of hubby and me and a small picture of her and my mother (taken at our wedding).

Any Grandparents out there?

Oh Canada's picture

I've decided to do some worring about future events!

My BF and I plan to marry and not have any children of our own. He has 4 already and 3 of them are young adults. I am wondering what it's going to be like when his kids start having babies of their own. I don't have a lot of interest in having children but worry that I will feel the sting of jealousy (or maybe I won't be jealous - but happy!).

Is x 'making up illnesses...for daughter to have?

lovin-life's picture

Well it was x's Wed evening with the kids. He can't pick her up in time for practice...so I shut supper off & drive her...he's there by the time I get there. Can't he just leave work on time?!!! aarrrgggg....

She comes home saying that her chest was sore at practice and she couldn't do the drills....and that she thinks she has...and I quote...." 'leukemia' no ..that's not it..'anemia'...no that's not it...it's something that's serious though"....unquote.

Advice on telling your children they are 1/2 brother or sister

Lacey's picture

So my daughter..she is 7..came up to me tonight and told me that her dad..my ex..told her that her little brother is only her 1/2 brother.I never even thought of explaining this to her or how I would because I don't think it really matters.But I guess my ex felt it was his right to tell her.I am pissed off about it because I don't think it is up to him.I explained it to my daughter and she seemed to understand.I am just mad that he put me in this situation.

Just needed to vent about that.

Thanks.

Lacey

Online Search

stepmama04's picture

Hello everyone. I am fairly new to this board. I have gotten most of my questions so far answered by simply reading your posts. My question is this:

If I want to search online for any records regarding BM and her family (tax deed, bankruptcy, etc.) is there a certain way of going about doing that?

I have tried for about an hour now looking at my county's website and other places but have found nothing. I am just wanting to search their information mostly about their home.

Can you help??

Thank you for taking the time to read this!

My ex is crazy....I'm back to court again

Lacey's picture

Not again...my ex of 4 years constantly takes me to court.We just went thru a full 2 day trail because he didn't want to pay any child support,only wanted our children to attend his Catholic Church and a Catholic School.

A bit of history might help.We were together for 5 years and have 3 children,a 7 year old daughter and 5 year old twin boys.The entire time we were together I attended a non denominational Church with our children.I always asked him to attend and he never would.Not once to he suggest we go to a Catholic Church.

Stepchildren and birth control

mudhead's picture

Help, I need advice. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 stepchildren (my husband's children from a previous marriage)and 1 child between us. My stepdaughter is 15 and my stepson is 19 and my daughter is 13. We have recently learned that my stepdaughter who is 15 is having sex on a pretty regular basis with her boyfriend. Both myself and my husband spoke with her upon discovering this and went through the whole respect yourself, use protection, etc. speach. Being a normal teenager she kind of just laughed it off and said she won't do it again.

Does anyone else feel this way?

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In the seven months that have past since the EX has found out about our relationship and impending marriage she has made our life a living hell as you can probably tell from my other post. I didn't write about all she has done in that post but there has been plenty. Among the highlights, accusing us of doing "adult things" in front of the child etc. She has also accused me of doctoring her emails to my fiancee, of harassing her at work by phone etc. Of course she cannot prove any of these accusations as I have never done any of them.

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