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I just wanted to take a second and thank everyone for his or her insight, support, and encouragement!
The Grad debate was solved…by none other than my adorable SD.
FH called yesterday for his nightly chat, and she instantly launched into how: "When you and Everyone's Interest come to my grad you will have to sit apart from Mommy." No prodding or coaching on anything...just said it.
DH and I have made a point to be the "better" people, being supportive of their relationship with BM, not involving them in the battles w/ her, not ripping on BM to the skids, not pointing out the ridiculous lies that the skids are being told...but you know what....taking the high road sucks! I've noted that over the last 6 months the skids and SD11 in particular have become a walking talking bombing squad on DH and I and most of it coming directly from BM.
I need to know if i am doing the right thing. My husbands ex(Bio Mom) has threatend to beat me up again. This time over the phone. Just before this incident she tried to assault me at a basketball game all because I was there recording the game for my husband. i am tired of dealing with this behavior because she is "Just that way" according to Bio dad and ss's. Should I continue to have my rights violated because she doesn't like me? It has been 12 years. I need advice...
OK so as a few know or may not, the big C, (BM) and SD 12 have not been in our lives for almost 11 years. Well now here we are with her wanting DH to come back to her and when she doesn't get her way going back to domestics for more money!! Anyway after the birth certificate thing, (she came to my house wanting to look at my DH, lets just say she got chased up my driveway)she drove straight to domestics for yet another increase. The only reason she gets as much as she does is the order was written wrong, and DH was kicked out when they drew it up.
How does it happen...you go from being ecstatically happy and in love to miserable and resentful overnight? I blame it all on BM and my own insecurities AND FH lack of parenting.
Thank G*d for sleep meds. No, I am not going to OD and this is not a warning. LOL.
I was just thinking, though, the inventors of Ambien HAVE SKIDS AND SPOUSES OF THOSE SKIDS WHO JUST DON'T GIVE A DAMN about anyone or anything that doesn't involve them.
Hahahaha. It's my birthday and I so don't care about being weird right now. LOL.
No worries; I'll be back to caring on Friday. 
Do those words fit with the tune of the original happy b_day song? *shrug*
I am a loss. My 15 yro Sd told us that after her mom got out jail (SD lives with us a few states away thank heavens) that BM went on Dead tour (hey I like the Dead too) ran out of money in CA and had to pan handle her way home (She has another child who is 6) and is now living with "friends" who are on drugs and her mom is probably on Cocaine. She learned all this from staying in touch with her brothers father......BM's ex, and she is freaking out. Understandably. No teenager should have to write their mom a letter about how they are being irresponsible.
Well what an interesting adventure this has been......
Session one and two are individual sessions at separate times session three and four BM and BF3 together.
Due to BF3 having his tonsils out 5 days before his first session he asked if I could attend which was sweet but the rest BM has asked that I not be allowed to attend. Apparently because this has nothing to do with me.......
Does anyone know how this works? If a child at 13 yrs of age wants to move with BM or BD and you don't want them to then what do you do? I live in Texas and have no idea how to deal with this. BD tells me her biodad says she can choose when she's 13 and SS(13 in 4 months) and SD want to move to their BMs. DH and I both say no. My reason for no with my kids is because I don't want another woman raising my kids. They are mine and my exs. Ex works outrageous hours and kids would be left with Stepmom majority of the time. I don't feel that she should be raising my kids.