My husband just got an email from BM, saying that she wanted to talk to him after SD8 had gone to bed. She suggested Thursday at 8:30, which technically, SD8 would not be sleeping by then, but whatever. My husband emailed her back & said no phone calls, if she had something to say, she could write a letter (or email). Yay! Because this is what I was thinking, too. A phone call from BM that late would mean neither of us would be sleeping until after midnight, because we'd be discussing whatever she called about. We've had enough of those nights!!!

In his defence, DH has done better than ever lately. He used to chat with her about things that had nothing to do with the kids & if she wasn't a psycho who twisted everything around & lied about is constantly this wouldn't be a big deal. So my policy is the less she knows the harder she has to work to twist her sick lies about us. DH didn't get this for a long time. Well, he came down with a horrible virus which destroyed our fishing plans (sad) & the dr told him it was very contagious. So we cancelled the SK visit. Kind of sucks that he's so sick I can't bask in this much.

I posted a blog yesterday about a big problem that erupted with BM. I REALLY needed some advice but only Anita said anything.
So I will be contacting an attorney to find out what I need/want to do with BM. Last bight at bedtime DH admitted something more she said was she thinks I mistreat her son because he has said so more than once and she has seen on TV how women kill children. WTF?!
DH won't tell me more. He says he "doesn't remember". I think he's afraid that I will divorce him to get away from crazy.

The BM is really eager to ditch the SDs onto us. Originally wanted to do it with no legal paperwork (currently she has full custody and we have them stay EOW and she wants that reversed). She reckoned that it has all changed from when she did a custody thing in 2005 and now no paperwork needed doing. I spent the afternoon ringing the relevant organisations and found out what needed to happen ie lawyer filing a variation of parenting order and wrote down what she needed to do.