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It all came to me... I got it...
When I went to the www.bonusfamilies.com website I remember readign the Biological mothers complaining of the term "BM" because of Bowel Movement... }:) LOL
I guess they NEEDED to come back with something... and guess what? Bonus mom makes BM as well...
Talk about confusing...
HAHA... The revenge of the BMS
LOL
didnt want that crazy beotch seeing that and getting all money hungry! ugh, these poor pathetic women!
So this Wednesday (last day of school for SD13), DH picks her up from school and takes her to her counseling appointment (the day was changed so BM could take and surprise, she backed out!).
DH picks her up and tries to engage SD in conversation during the drive, asking her about the last day of school and did she get phone numbers and emails for her friends here, where we live?
im actually relieved! im so happy to be able to be my nice bubbly self with this woman who no matter what my fh loves because it is his mother. i would be a fool to think i could turn my back for one second, but seriously now that mil and i will be civil and what not, bm is just a speck of dust in the background to me!
i am praying for NO drama, ill update tomorrow, lol!
Did someone replace my FH with the one I wanted???
First thing this am he sends me a text titled New Beginnings..and than just I love you.
Than he sends me an email telling me that (all of a sudden?) he sees that "BM is doing everything she can to cause drama and break us up and that will never happen and that he sent her an email stating that she needs to realize that he wants nothing to do with her except for their son and the games she is playing are immature and will NEVER break us up.
I am going to have to quit my job and get divorced just to keep up with my STalk surfing! 
A few short months ago I could reasonably skim each and every post in each and every recently active thread every day. That is not happenin these days.
I have to participate in a limited number of threads until they burn out. As one burns out I add one but I can't keep up with them all.
Any recommendations on how I can improve my surfing efficiency?
I caught DH in 3 lies about gifts to SK's recently. I want to know why he doesnt seem to care at all that I am upset about this? I want to know how other SM's handle this type of spending coverup by their DH :?
I am new here and have found a lot of the discussions to be helpful. I love the venting option :-). I am looking, I guess, for support. I would like to know that I am not a completely evil person for how I feel about my SS12 and how I have decided to handle the situation. I little imput from you all would be welcome as well
So last night was hell..I'm at work today ..soooo tired..and a headache from crying so much.
Last night I decided to be strong no matter what..I have gotten thru other heartaches in my life..I can get thru this. Playing the wo is me..life isn't fair isn't going to put a new roof over my head.
Ok DH taking BM to court for CS modification because his company had a company wide 15% pay cut and of course she would not agree to it without spending thousands on attorneys. Anyway I can not stand his attorney. After 20 unanswered emails about the SK's that DH sent to BM, we decided it might be a good idea for me to communicate so there is more proof that she is not communicating about the children. Also DH had a screw up with his expense check and emailed BM to wait 3 days before cashing the CS payment and of course she didn't, she cashed it and went right to her attorney.