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I'm mad

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Submitted by gremy725 on Mon, 06/15/2009 - 3:31pm

I find that I am just mad. Mad about the mess the kids make when they are here. How can they possibly bitch about the rule to eat in the kitchen, over a plate, when they don't FOLLOW THE RULE anyway?? I found a ruined towel stuffed in the closet today and nasty food garbage all over my car. Why is it that they think the world is their garbage can and I am the garbage collector? (I do not get paid enough for that!) They never get in trouble for not following the rules. I am just so frustrated and angry.

Am I totally horrible that I'm pissy that I have to work even when our son is born?

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Submitted by missangie1978 on Mon, 06/15/2009 - 3:27pm

If it wasn't for all the money that we spend on SS (who lives wiht us full-time) I could probably go to working part-time and still be able to stay home with our son (he's due in Sept) but DH doesn't want to hurt SS by cutting back on things for him because he thinks SS will then be jealous of the baby.

Ugh! Honestly I'm at a point where I don't care if SS is jealous I just want to be able to spend time at home with my first child

Emotional purging

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Submitted by MSloan86 on Mon, 06/15/2009 - 8:41am

Some days you just scream inside to get out of your own life, to escape your own existence.
Other than my daughters smile and kiss each morning, I haven’t a single thing I enjoy in my life.
Time spent with my wife is tense, and often uncomfortable. The vibe is rarely warm and there is no affection sent my way,

Im going to end up in jail - if she continues........

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Mon, 06/15/2009 - 8:17am

I am so damn angry right now. BM has really stepped over the boundaries of what a good mom is completely.

SD was at a go-cart racetrack amusement park with her aunt (husband's sister and kids) on Saturday. A stranger told SD she was beautiful and asked that she must look just like her mom. SD then says no i look just like my dad (which she does) and then replies well my mommi says my daddi and Gr8tma are mean so they are going to have to go to court and fight over me.

denied visitation today

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Submitted by stand_by_your_man on Sun, 06/14/2009 - 10:17pm

hubby just got back from 100+ roundtrip to have his monthly visit witht the kids (teens, 2 emanicpated) and was stood-up at the connection point (church).
he called the kids and ex frantically and was finally given this explanation from the hypocrite BM (she is a devout "Christian" supposedly): "your visits are only on the 1st of month, which you missed, so you can see them in July".

OT - As good of a parent as my BF is, his brother is the exact opposite.

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Submitted by Nymh on Sun, 06/14/2009 - 5:11pm

I feel so sorry for my BF's poor nephews. Their father is truly clueless and gives a bad image to fathers everywhere. He is a parent of convenience, and on visitations his two sons spend more time with their grandmother (my MIL) than they do with BIL. [I call them MIL and BIL even though BF and I are not married because it's easier.] Some weekends MIL will have the children all weekend long and they won't see their dad at all.

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