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Website is godsend

alwaysme's picture

I just wanted to say, i am so grateful i have discovered this website. I thought i was starting to go insane and that i was the only step-parent who was having a hard time liking hubby's kids and dealing with a slightly mentally unstable selfish narcissitic ex (not wife though, thankgod)

I'm a little tipsy tonight................are you? Here are some drunken ramblings (hiccup) from a frustrated stepmom.

RustyHalo's picture

I made me a drink tonight. Okay, I made three drinks tonight. Oh my, I'm having drinks on a random Tuesday, I feel so......um, wow lost my train of thought there......
I had one hell of a day.

Results of paternity finally in...

sm2lucifer's picture

Thank you to everyone who gave me support on my only 2 blogs posted here.

The paternity test are in and DH is NOT, let me repeat, DH is NOT the father :). Lucy went up for her visit on Friday and DH told her to just keep her and why. We've had her for 3 1/2 yrs and custody will be 3 yrs in November. Not sure of CA. limitation laws and really don't care at this point. She's out of our home and I couldn't be better. Friday was tough for me, as I had to face reality.

When SS is an adult...will he realize BM is CRAP?

LauraHelton331's picture

I am just sitting here listening to SS9 mouth off to DH. Anyway, this got me thinking....

So, for you ADULTS with divorced parents, Did any of YOU have a preference for a parent growing up, but then LATER realized how well intentioned your least favorite parent was?????? IS THERE ANY HOPE?? Or, even as an adult, will SS9 just be a piece of crap human being like his mother, if that's who he idolizes as a child???

OMG - could FH be right about this? He says I hate everything BM does even if it's right or wrong.

RustyHalo's picture

I am sounding like such a hypocrite right now..........because I am the great supporter/debator of disengaging!!!!!!!!!!!!! But, I'm about to ENGAGE with a vengeance!!

Please forgive me ahead of time, as I'm sure I am about to ramble incessantly!!!!

How many of you are kinda weepy today? It's kinda uncanny.

RustyHalo's picture

I have been weepy all day. I have a headache and a belly ache. I slept all right, but I feel exhausted today.

Is this stress? How about a new word that takes the place of PMS? BMS - Bio Mother Stress (or syndrome)

I definitely have BMS today.

Need to go back to the land of the disengaged........

I think the unspoken stress in our household has reached huge proportions!! Help please!

Stick's picture

Ladies - I'm calling out to you for help. And whether that help just be a story to get my mind of this or a joke or whatever.... Please just write! And I'm REALLY NOT asking for any praise or anything like that.. That makes me uncomfortable.

It started today because I keep having trouble getting myself out of bed and facing the day.

And then in the shower, and ever since, I just feel like crying. Like I want to cry all day. And nothing different is happening!!

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