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Do your BM'S do this crap

momgoingnuts's picture

bm get's it in my 2 sd's heads that when their here dh needs to take them to do fun things all day every day such as go shopping go to the movies go to the park ect. o but me and my bio kids shouldnt be allowed to come since their here to visit their dad it should only be THEM doing things together and doing these things EVERY day their here.

What a long, long, long day

joylacker's picture

It has been, sigh... my DH's little brother is getting married in Oct. and his barchelor party is tonight, so my MIL and one of my SIL came to town with their husbands to hang out, the kicker is of course that since they live in smaller cities and we in the big city they wanted to go shoping and I have the skids with me, fun!
Before I knew SIL was coming I thought of making the outing "kid oriented" going to the zoo or the science centre, I knew grandma would enjoy that, and it's so much easier than having to drag an SS6 and SD8 through the f-ing mall all afternoon!

leave or stay

mcneita's picture

I have been married to my husband for 4yrs. He has two outside kids 6 and 13 and one with me thats three. Its been hell!!! My step daughter mother died when she was two and the family is out to get us. My stepdaughter is bad ass hell she is six and has been kicked out of fours schools. Her aunt called DSS on my husband and I saying that I beat the little girl. Which was later found out to be a lie and DSS dropped the chargers.The aunt is always taken us to court to get custody because my step daughter gets a check every month. My stepson has a different mother and we do not speak.

jeeeeeez

Mally's picture

My Skids have be come so incredibly lazy. I mean they shove stuff under their bed and I have to ground them. I think they have forgotten our rules and insist to live by their vacations rules with their mom. Which there is no consistancy with them. So get this. my SSon who I love dearly peed the bed the other night. I don't understand how he can go from doing great when he left to becoming a three year old after staying with bm for summer. She let him do whatever because it was easier to give him what he wanted than listen to him whine.

So much for a fun family outing

justme2's picture

My work gave us tickets to a local baseball game. It was suppose to be a family fun night kind of thing. I got tickets for lil SS who kept talking about how excited he was because the older ss and his girlfriend were going with us. It was suppose to be fun and relaxing. Well last weekend lil ss went to beach with mom's bestfriend and her son. So this weekend she says is her weekend and she and her "new family" (Her fiance and 2 kids) are going to her friends house. I and my husband are being totally ditched! I told my husband he was going to have to stand up when it was his weekend.

Perspective and education

isthis4me's picture

Hello out there. I actually have something hopeful to write this week and I want to share it with those of you who might be in my situation.....
Backstory: Dh and I have been MISREABLE for months, I was DONE last week! BM's behavior and DH's lack of action was putting me over the edge! His once Strong, protective nature has been replaced by a slug.

I need advice....

thewickedstepmother's picture

I am married to the love of my life.. the problem is he has 2 daughters!!!! I have 2 kids and they adore my husband, my kids are 18 and 20 ..a girl and boy. I moved a hour and a half away from my home town when we got married..my daughter wanted to finish her last 2 years in her high school so she is with my parents and my son decided to stay with a friend since he did not want to move..you would think that was reason enough to make my kids dislike there new step father..but no they like him!! Things are good we see my kids all the time.

Annoyed with husband

squeegie_beckenheimer's picture

As I've mentioned in other blogs, my in-laws are visiting. We picked up SD9 last night & we out to dinner with his parents (more on that in another blog). My husband also invited them to breakfast this morning, which is fine, especially since my husband is making pancakes. So all I have to do it make sure the table is clean & set & clean up after his pancake making mess.

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