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For the last 4 years, since crazy witch took DH to court for more child support, DH has had to cover his daughter on his insurance policy through work. The additional cost to the insurance is over 80USD a month...The mother already covers her through her work, and it is NOT an additional cost to her...but obviously, she wanted to be a witch and make DH pay the money anyway...(ps.
My DH and I have been married for only 5 mos. I have 3 wonderful kids and he has 2 children of his own. We have been living together for almost a year now, but the jealousy between our two youngest daughters is getting out of control. His is 6 years old and mine is 4. The most recent fight has been one over the SD's birthday party coming up soon. She has told my daughter that she cannot come to her party because she doesn't like her. I know it is childish for me to get involved, but it is hard for me to see my baby get her feelings hurt...
and I want to know what you think.
Her husband's ex had a baby recently, and she wants the baby to call her mom. She wants her DH to have joint custody.
I think she is moving way too fast. The BM is still breastfeeding. I know I wouldn't feel comfortable forcing my skids to call me mom.
What I would love to know is, did the DH cheat on the SM with the BM, or did he date the BM, break it off with her, then date and marry the SM?
I feel like screaming at BM she is such a F*#@ing idiot, has anyone done this!!?? what were the results did it help?, did it hurt? I am pretty sure it would feel goodbut would it do any good!!?? I feel like I really need to confront this woman, but I would like a little input before I try on what I may expect and what is the reaction any of you had when DH found out about a confrontation with BM!!??
help! they are going to be home soon, I don't want them to come home!!how do I get them to move in with their mother without being mean to them!!??
Where do I begin...The ex knew me while they were still married. I didn't realize the error in my ways till it was too late. What's done and said cannot be undone. They were officially divorced last year in November after being separated for almost two years. She moved the kids three hours away from us (legally!) and we drove twelve hours every other weekend and sometimes every weekend (I think it's important to get one on one time with them since they seem to fight for attention when they're all together). Then their father and I relocated to the same city as the kids.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
SMJ - stay strong girl. I would be a puddle of goo on the hospital floor I think, if my husband were in the state yours is in. You are doing GREAT. You are keeping it together. You're almost there. He will and you will get through this. Keep your eye on the prize... Nookie when he heals.
WOW! The stress I am under is just about killing me. I have 3 step children and 2 daughters of my own. My oldest stepson and youngest stepson are FANTASTIC. The issue is my stepdaughter. She is 14. She is viscious. She lies. She makes up stories to get attention (positive or negative). She throws me under the bus anytime she gets the chance. Tells people I am mean to her. **sigh** The funny part to all of this is that I have done nothing but try to build this girl up. Included her in everything.
SD7 just walked in from playing at a friend's house and said she made presents. She came out to show me a picture she drew and it is addressed "To Mom and Dad". DH hasn't been with his ex since SD was 2. And DH thinks these days alone will help my relationship with SD. All that did was put another nail in the coffin.
I've been feeling so down about my life here lately. The other night my dad called and was trying to give me advice or help in any way possible and I almost didn't want to hear any of it. It's not good.
I have 3 sons (5,3,19months) and SD3 well my boys always want to play with SD dress up stuff and all the accessories but people always say NO b/c its girls stuff (I for one dont really care they are kids) So after Halloween i went to the stores and got costumes for like 85% off and bought a vintage wooden and metal trunk....so now i will have boy dress up and girl dress up in a really cool trunk.
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