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The point of all of the distant past background and the not so distant past background is to get to the recent background and then to get to what happened today.
SS plays PeeWee tackle football and seems to really like it. I took him to practice and all the way home he has always seemed really excited about what they did, etc. He is maturing and since he runs pretty fast, he gets a lot of playing time. The very first year that he played, he told Hubby that he did not want to miss games to go to his mom's house. Before, it meant that he probably didn't go to her house from Labor Day until the end of October. Now, we are closer, so we decided that he could go after his game on the Saturdays that were in her weekends.
Some people are crazy, stupid, naive, and then there are some people that are just don't get it! Well, it's been about 4 weeks since my SD15 left urine in her room because she was 'pissed off' literally. Anyway, DH found out two weeks after that that I was still pissed off about it during one of our counseling sessions with our Pastor. I expressed that I was still upset because I still haven't gotten an apology about the whole situation. When that was bought to the light, I guess DH told SD15 about it and she sent me a text apologizing. I never even paid it one mind.
Background: This is my second marriage and DHs third. XH and I divorced in 1999 when DS was 8 and DD was 7. He and I had a good relationship, he paid his support, we had open visitation, we worked around his work schedule and he was welcome to stop by to see them whenever he wanted or to call and see if they were free if he was. I met (forever) Hubby in summer 2004 and XH died in the fall of 2004.
DH has a facebook acc and his profile says single instead of married. I changed the profile and he asked me abt it and i did not deny it he says he has reasons bt I never get to know the reasons. Am begining to think i embrass him
OMG! I'm so fed up right now!
Lastnight SD was suppose to see DH for two hours, as usual. And of course she didn't come. SD sent DH a text 20 minutes before pick up that said "I dont feel good" DH calls her and asks her whats wrong. SD says she has a tummy ache and her head just starting hurting 10 minutes ago. DH just says "ok, whatever." I'm so fucking tired of this shit. For 9 years BM has tried her best to alienate SD from DH. Good job BM, seems as though your tactics are starting to finally work.
Dear Karma,
Thank you for showing up to court today. I love you and have missed you so. Whattt??? All back child support obligation dropped because of fraud??? What???? BM now owes us $22,000.00 for 5 years? Did you really believe that a court of law would simply take your toothless word that all 3 stepkids had been living with you? 5 years of my life raising your kids. You worthless junkie whore. You're a bad person and since you live with your mom and sisters at the age of 42, guess you'll be in jail soon. Broke ass bitch.
So anybody who has read my previuos blog about CPS will be familiar as to what has been happening recently.
Recap:
FSD(6) tells her mother that SO pushed her head into the bathtub wall. BM calls CPS. BM knows SO is not capable of doing anything like that, but has blammed her mistrust in SO on other influences in his life meaning me. CPS shows up and talks with SO. We get FSD back and explain to her that telling lies is bad.
So DH got a new phone for work, one of those smart phones. It's so smart and connected that it links everything, so somehow it automatically linked a picture of BM to her phone number (from email or FB or somewhere, even though she's blocked on email chat and FB).
It was annoying me. I'm one of those who will pick up his phone and look through it, and he knows it, doesn't like it, but accepts it. He's also welcome to go through my phone anytime. Anyway, so this picture, all jazzed up of course, wasn't really adding much to my life other than annoyance.
As I sit here this morning, I am remembering the pain was DH was experiencing last night. The tears were welled up in his eyes about his oldest daughter. He told me how he was trying to convince himself that it was no big deal, so he had not told me. On Monday, he had talked to his BD13. He asked how her weekend was and she said "great, I went golfing with Uncle Mike!" Well, it doesn't seem like this may be upsetting.