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After reading these blogs for I dont know how long...it finally happened. My H asked me, "dont you love him?" about my SS4. I just stayed quiet while he continued to say 'cant you love him the same way you do our BD?'
Thankfully Ive had steptalk to guide me, instead of responding- I stayed quiet while he talked struggling not to crack up laughing at the typical fatherly gut-check response to bring up love.
So Saturday I load SD5 into our vehicle to take her back to BM's and nada...it wont start. It is turning over but acting like it's out of gas. The gas gauge is the one thing that does not work so I keep track of mileage. I look at the milage and it's low but shouldnt be empty. Oh well, maybe I miscalculated. So I call SD5's SF to come and get her and take her back to BM's. The next day, Sunday, SIL brings over 6 gallons of gas and dumps it in. Tried to start it. Still nothing. Great. Now I'm thinking my fuel pump has went out. That is several hundreds of dollars in repair.
Seems like FSD16.5 is literally turning into her mother (BM) right before my eyes. It's like a vicious cycle - it will keep repeating itself if no one stops it. BM is an attention-seeking, uneducated, leeching, narcissistic, dependent lives-off-CS woman - basically sleeps with everything and anything (she has NO standards), etc... As FSD gets older, I see her becoming JUST.LIKE.BM. I'm worried about FSD and would like to do something to stop this madness before it gets worse.
Okay so this forth of July weekend we had SD9. (We actually have had her all weekends since school ended!..Sob) Well this Saturday my sister and nephews who I see once or twice a month came over to have a BBQ and spend some family time with us. Well Dear fiance has Sprained his ankle and was pretty much stuck in the house not wanting to do much which was understandable. Anyway we all decide to go to our pool and play water volleyball. SD9 was also joining in the fun.
I have been wandering on this site a while and I finally created a account. I tried to make myself feel better by reading the horror stories of others, sick I know. But that is my life now. I am just so miserable because of my SS. He is 14 and I have been with his father for 2 years. He has been divorced 3 years. I have my own daughter who is 10 and we have a son together who is a year old. The Bm in my situation had custody of SS but the day before our honeymoon she dumps SS on us and goes to Mexico with her boyfriend, or she says.
So SO decides to have 4th party, prep for hours, cook, clean the entire nine yards. Mostly all that show up are men. I have to deal with guns in my living room--my stepmom shot my dad so guns in the living room not my idea of fun.
Then that stops to the lovely SS showing up, walks in past me never says hello, plugs in his phone, opens the refrig takes a beer offers everyone one, doesn't offer me one, and he is not old enough to drink.
Just when you think you are a hard ass? Moving my dad here to live with me. DH doesn't try to have anything to do with any of his sons but SS3. He wants to move in with us. I can't be all that bad when the best out of all of them wants to spend more time with me then any one. Dad will be ajustment but will get though. This may be my last enty??????????????? Thanks everyone......
Disclaimer: Again, operating on very little sleep and am uncharacteristically emo about impending birthday. Do not advise "Cut and run" -- this option has been ruled out.
Have you ever noticed when they are quiet too long that the anxiety starts up again. It's been to long since we've had an email or communication of any kind- and my anxiety creeps back in.
Ss16 wants to move in with us due to stepdad being a pain in the ass. He's telling both skids that he is their dad and not my DH because they are with him more than DH. I haven't ever had a conversation with BM or stepdad because DH and BM do not get along at all. I don't want anything to do with this woman anyway! There's been so many things that I do not agree with the most recent being the threatening of DH with continuing to pay her money for ss18 even though the decree has DH no longer obliged to pay her.
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