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Seriously? Last night while boyfriend and I were finally alone, I thought I would share some of my epiphanies about our situation. He has been pissed at me in the past because I "vent" too much about his kids. So, I thought it would be a positive thing to tell him that I have been talking more to my girlfriends and using this site as a way to deal with my feelings. Well, I should have known...another argument! (By the way, the kids are about the only thing we ever disagree about!)
... you and my husband are the only ones that know, because I didn't want anyone to talk me out of it, but I went to the gynecologist today, and had the Essure procedure done. In 12 weeks time, my female parts will be effectively shut down, and no longer capable of baby making.
In another life, I would have had a second child 5 years ago, as my bio-son, Gibby will be 9 in a week.
In this life, I became a mom the day I said "I do."
I believe my DH's mom should be civil to my SD11's mother - obviously she is the mom of her granddaughter...but, I feel like she takes it to a whole other level. They call each other and when she is in town she will stop by BM's house (when the SD is not home). She constantly comments on what a great mom she is...It's sort of frustrating and annoying....just venting here.
I was busy doing household stuff (cooking, cleaning, etc) getting ready for company, when SS9 waltzes in and asks me to find some paper for him to draw on. I say to SS9, "I'm really busy right now, but as soon as I'm done I'll get it for you." He then runs to DH and tells him "Daddy, SHE said that she doesn't have time for me and said why can't YOU do it since I'm your child." Notice the QUOTATION marks!!!! Needless to say, I hit the roof.
I have a daughter who is 16, we are very close. Her dad died when she was 9 month old and I raised her for 10 years by myself. When I got married things changed of course, she addapted. Now my skids moved in with us, they are SD16 and SS13. I work full time and have my whole adult life. Finally making enough money to do things and buy things for my daughter. But now with the other two in the house I feel guilty and am made to feel guilty if I want to buy her something or do something with her, if I dont do it or buy his kids something too.
I don't understand and don't know what to do about this situation. We have been married for 4 years. I have a 16yr old daughter and he has a 16 yr old daughter and an 13yr old son. They moved in with us a year ago. Before they moved in he always said to me that his children never did what mine did. Well,Well,Well, was he wrong. They are all normal teenagers and are capable and do the same crap. He doesn't see it. When I say somthing he ALWAYS says what about your daughter. First of all my daughter was raised my way and knows what is acceptable and what is not.
FDH and I are planning our wedding & honey moon and we were trying to figure out the schedule as far as Bm and SD are concerned. SD usually is with us every other week, but we are planning a 2-week honeymoon (It's a pretty involved trip) and so we will have to ask BM to take her two weeks in a row, then we will have her 2 weeks in a row right after that. At least, that was the plan I came up with.
I'm a 36 year ordinary working woman and have been dating my boyfriend for a little over two years. The problem? His 20 year old daughter. Between turning 18 and now, she has gotten eight tattoos, a tounge piercing, belly button piercing and got pregnant on purpose and delivered shortly after graduation. Of course, the boyfriend lasted eight months, she is now again living at home with her father, working less than part-time and is not seeking child support from the boyfriend in hopes that he will take her back.
I was sorting some of the laundry that S-Kids left from the weekend and find a pair of thong panties. My first reaction was of disbelief. I don't know, maybe I'm just becoming prudish as I gracefully age, but 14 seems young for thongs and padded bras. What bothers me is that BM has to be buying these for her! Why do they want to grow up so fast? I try to reason with myself that it's only clothes, and clothes don't make a person, blah, blah, blah.
I can't stand this 14 year old evil bitch. I hate the fact that she is in my house for the summer. It depresses me. I constantly worry about her going into my room and stealing my things. I have moved all the valuable jewelry to my parents house. I leave my makeup at work. I hide money, checkbooks, laptop and other personal belongings. I take a picture with my cell phone of how I left my other personal items each morning before I go to work so I can compare when I get home to make sure they have not been tampered with. I can't stand her.
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