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SD - weekend and major discussion

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 12/17/2018 - 3:16pm

This weekend was - interesting. I feel great that I had a big talk with Munchkin SD12.5, but not great that I spent a big chunk of change on her Sunday afternoon.

My issue currently with Munchkin is that she doesnt listen or help. She always just wants to sit on her behind and eat and text and watch things on her phone. The entire time. Its to the point where she does this at restaurants. DH sometimes tells her "no phone", sometimes not.

OT -DH family not including me...

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 12/14/2018 - 3:45pm

So - perhaps I am being overly emotional about this ch!t.

DH has a big - very big famiy on his side. And I feel like the entire time I have been ignored, and blocked out, over 4.5 years. Like an appendage, a wall flower. I only go to gatherings and the occasional dinner. But I have been to pretty much EVERY gathering. And its the same thing, always. They get into their cliques. Its all about them. And what an awesome, loving family they are. Ive never been engaged in a conversation, I have tried many times to engage them in conversations, only to be ignored.

Christmas Program update

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 12/13/2018 - 2:09pm

I went home just a bit early, put on a sparkly top, did my makeup and just generally looked awesome (wink). Even had time for some hijinx.

Munchkin SD did what I thought she would and texted everyone that she "needed a dress, could we bring one". I put two dresses plus some lack boots, and a pair of my pants in a bag for her, as it was a black-white theme. We get there a little late, the parking was clogged, and Munchkin was waiting anxiously for us so she could change from her ripped jeans into something nice. We were all super excited for her and she was excited and happy. 

Christmas Program tonight - kinda nervous

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 12/12/2018 - 5:03pm

Munchkin SD12 has her Christmas program tonight. Last year she was in beginning orchestra and this year she is in advanced orchestra - playing the violin.

I wasnt nervous until just now - Toxic Troll BM MIGHT be there (she was there last year with soon-to-be-ex-bf Tweedle Dum). Toxic Feral Eldest MIGHT also be there. Havent seen her since Christmas last year.

So much has happened this year and now for sure she wont ask us to save a place!

Im going to leave a bit early, and get myself dolled up. Just to feel a little less nervous. Yah know?

 

Dr Phil show airing custody battle

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 11/19/2018 - 5:40pm

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/man-girlfriend-confront-mother-daugh...

I dont typically for this kind of show, but this caught my eye! Father finds out kid is his at 3 years old, tries to have a relationship, mother tries to block him. BM is accusing BF of PAsing with lies to CPS.

Looks like a blog waiting to happen on Steptalk.

Thursday DH humor

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Submitted by CLove on Thu, 11/08/2018 - 10:31am

As we are getting ready to go to our respective jobs, Dh recieves a text from ToxicTroll BM. "Can you pick up Munchkin SD12 this morning? I am almost out of gas and might run out on the way there to drop her off."

We cackled like hens at that one. Talk about early morning funnies:

- ToxicTroll Bm hasnt been working for oh, about 2 months plus now.

Needing to read up on Disengagement

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Submitted by CLove on Wed, 11/07/2018 - 10:52am

Yep - so again, Feral Eldest SD19, is working her way in. ToxicTroll asked DH if he was going to provide a car for Toxic Feral SD19. His reply was that she needed her license first and then he would find something. Because he is a mechanic, people are always giving him cars and he puts 50-100 into it and it works magically! 

Last time we talked (last weekend, or was it 2 weekends ago???) When Toxic Feral spewed her toxic sludge all over him, he told me that he "definitely was not providing a car for her now, that was way over..."

Monday Blues

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 11/05/2018 - 3:50pm

Anyone else nervous about the "hell" idays?

I guess Ive got the Monday Blues.

To summate:

1. I am still a temp, but yet still making decent money. I really hate this job too. Monday Blues.

2. We got a thorough home inspection. Basically, everything wrong we knew about, plus a few additionals. Like the fact that we cant turn the furnace on because there are cracks in it, plus asbestos in one side of the house heating ducts. It will be a cold winter. Monday Blues.

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Uncle accused of abuse - help. Advice.

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 10/29/2018 - 3:58pm

I thought it would be another day like any other. 

Munchkin was sick when her mother dropped her off (looked very bloated, stomach pains, and diarreah), so we kept her home and I stayed with her. I figured she had a lot to say, and I wasnt wrong. I just did not expect to hear what I did! I really need some advice.

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Toxic Chickens coming home to roost

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Submitted by CLove on Fri, 10/26/2018 - 10:43am

Well, last night I found out that Feral Eldest SD19 is being booted out of her place and INTENDS (forshadowing) to shack up with ToxicTroll BM. BM texted DH last night, and that is when I found out the latest and greatest:

- Feral Eldest had called Auntie and told her she had TRIED calling DH, but he never picked up and did not return phone call. This actually never happened and she did not pick up his phone calls. Probably because of her Toxic Spewing a week ago.DH told Auntie this was not true. Auntie knows what this child is really like, there are no scales on her eyes.

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