Feeling good because:

- things are REALLY great with DH, and Munchkin SD12. Last night she asked me to curl her beautiful hair and we laughed and cackled at my ineptitude (needing practice - I was never a girly type, and have naturally curly hair!). She was very forgiving, however.

Its been ongoing arguing between mother and daughter, since Toxic Feral Eldest SD20 moved in to her mothers house in November 2018. Even when its ok, she still does damage, and still has the same crappy attitude, according to Munchkin SD12.

So, Toxic Troll and her mini me, Feral Eldest, got into it again today.

They fight, they break up, they make up. Its very cyclical.

And just last night things seemed peachy. They went to Mc Dnoalds together, Toxic Troll had a "shaking car problem" and immediately texts DH at 10pm, while we were in bed. He ignores.

This am, he texts me that the two are getting into it BIG TIME. Name calling. And that he heard about it from munchkin. I chuckled and then asked him "oh, what effing crazy b!tch drunk whore? What names lol?"

Well, I opted for #1. Thanks to everyone for the kindness, support and advice. As someone who has lost a sibling to suicide, I couldnt "unsee" the post. As my husband's wife, I felt an obligation to mention it, without drama infusing the conversation, just a brief description.

His reaction was...nothing. He just looked at me and shook his head a little, and said he didnt want to hear about anything to do with her or her life. We did mention that she has said this before during fights.