SD 19 saying she wants to die - what should I do?
Recap: Toxic Feral Eldest is a miserable human being. She has said in the past "I should just kill myself" and it seemed like a way to guilt trip her parents, and now she is no contact with myself and DH, but lives with BM, Toxic Troll. She has falsley accused multiple people of multiple things.
I poke around instagram today, notice she has liked a photo that munchkin posted. Of course I click. And click around curious as to what she has been up to, etc. So, I get to something she has posted about "I just really want to die". This was a few days ago. A few days before that munchkin heard her singing in the apartment.
So, do I:
1. Let DH know what is going on with the posts?
2 Ask munchkin to check in with her sister, warning her that I am not to be mentioned, or
3. Leave her all alone, and completely shut my trap about it.
As some might know, suicide is a real trigger for me.
Any thoughts, advice would be appreciated