Meet my friends Pete and Re Peate
This weekend was my first time having a sleepover with Munchkin SD13's friend. It was her birthday last Thursday, and DH and I decided to let her invite a friend over and go do a Fun Activity (if I told you what it was youd know where I live!)
It was great, but a lot of work. Even just ordering pizza and having chips and salsa snacks was work, those kids were all over the place. Plus Munchkin got a new lizard with her birthday money, so she needed a cage setup with lighs for specific temps. Whew.
We thought, when Toxic Troll BM picked up Munchkin on Sunday, we could sit back, relax, watch some movies, chill. Nope, it was not to be.
Munchkin THOUGHT she was downloading a game app and charging to her mother's account, but instead it charged to our phone account (I hate sprint btw).DH gets an automated text from sprint about the 5$ charge, DH texts munchkin about it, she argues she did not, he sais "lets work it out in the morning", and then all he!! breaks loose.
Munchkin SD13 got her Fee Fees hurt, because DH said he was getting upset. So the Toxic Troll butts her ugly head in there, argues, and tells him he is "rude", and a "cold hearted bastard". That he will "lose his youngest child like he lost the eldest". The one who keeps asking to move in. Just, you know, to twist the knife in harder. He told her he didnt say anything mean, and that the name calling is horrible, and he would be dealng with it in the morning. End of story.
Munchkin KEEPS DOING THIS, getting the Fee Fees hurt, involving her mother, who goes into automatic rage mode, and then "I didnt know she would do that!!!" Those who have read previous posts know, its been a repeat offense. Typically I am the one that gets the blast.
Well, Munchkin, YES, you do know what your mother will do. We spoke of it, we avoid these things. I even joked, that he is MY husband, Im the only one that gets to call him names, haha.
Every week or so, munchkin comes crying to us over something Toxic Troll yells at her for, about letting her rabbits loose, cleaning the cage, or that she has to drive her to the house early for drop off. We dont turn it into a gosh darned drama!!! We hug her and hold her and ithats the end of it.
I so so wish I could record these numerous crying sessions, get a "burner phone", and send them anonymously to Toxic Troll. "See how much you have hurt her fee fees biotch? What do you have to say now?" Of course life doesnt work that way in stephell, does it?