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SD 19 saying she wants to die - what should I do?

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Recap: Toxic Feral Eldest is a miserable human being. She has said in the past "I should just kill myself" and it seemed like a way to guilt trip her parents, and now she is no contact with myself and DH, but lives with BM, Toxic Troll. She has falsley accused multiple people of multiple things.

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Haters gonna hatehatehate. Somewhat OT.

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All over social media and on almost every street corner festooned with flowers - there are random proclimations of "love".

This isnt a rant or a problem - this post o mine - merely an interesting occurence with SD Munchkin 12.

So, Munchkin came in the house last night after school with DH, and she didnt say hello, or anything. Just sat in the rocking chair on her phone or tablet drawing. I knew something was wrong, but thought maybe shes just tired. I left her alone, to decompress from the day.

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Wasted

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Im a little flored, but probably I already know the answer to this: STAY THE HECK OUT OF IT

So, Munchkin SD12 is a really really good artist. Shes got a lot of different ideas on what she wants to create and loves watercoloring, pencils and all that. Her latest thing was she wanted an ipad drawing pad, to do digital drawings and cartoons and comics, to print and publish online. She researched it and found out it costs almost $2,000 bucks.

Health Insurance

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Curious if anyone of you darling people have feedback on this topic.

I just recently started a new job that is awesome. I make great money (almost exactly the same as DH), and the most incredible benefits. I have not only medical, but Dental and Vision and they are known to be good plans in general (Anthem Blue Cross...)

I added DH. He also has employer-paid medical, but not dental or vision.

DH asked me to add Munchkin SD12 because her mother just lost her job that had great benefits (the same as mine) and previously had BOTH children on there with herself.

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Jumping Jack Flash Gas update

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DH came home after taking off his superman cape, and we lit a fire, and snuggled close, had some wine, and...

I got really mad.

Like furious mad. DH also got mad. He swooped in to rescue Toxic Troll so he can keep her mobile, so he doesnt have to drive as much and get stuck in traffic, for his daughter....etc.

I asked him what transpired in their conversation.

He said: "I told her that CLove is not happy with me doing this, that this is disrespecting our marriage, that with all the guys she is dating she needs to not call me."

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Jumping Jack Flash - Toxic Troll is out of gasgasgas

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And who does she call when her car stalls 3 blocks from her nasty apartment, who does she ask "can you turn around?" as he is running Munchkin SD12 to school like he does every single day, and then gets himself to work, where he wrenches all day every day so he can pay and pay and pay? Yup, you guessed it!!!!

She ran out of freaking gas. And calls MY husband, asking can he rescue her!!!!!!!

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Silence has broken...(sung to the tune "morning has broken")

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Well, it has happened. I knew it would happen eventually, and was right! Toxic Feral Eldest has now had a falling out with her mother, Toxic Troll, over money owed for rent and for rides to her work (TFE doesnt drive at age 19.5 and would uber, so Toxic Troll has been her uber). TFE SD19, texted her father, DH, after a long silence, accusations of abuse and then ignoring during Munchkin SD12 pickups, last night.

Ready, set, GO!

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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all you Steptalkers!

And happy friday.

Today is my (hopefully) last day as a temp. I am taking a quick break from all the "cleanup madness", because I want to make certain that things are ok for when I am gone. I have officially not officially closed my contract and have a week of prep/break before I start my new position January 2!

New Year, new job! Twice as much money, Medical, Dental, Vision, RETIREMENT! Oh and nice people 9I hope)

New year, new life.

SD - weekend and major discussion

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This weekend was - interesting. I feel great that I had a big talk with Munchkin SD12.5, but not great that I spent a big chunk of change on her Sunday afternoon.

My issue currently with Munchkin is that she doesnt listen or help. She always just wants to sit on her behind and eat and text and watch things on her phone. The entire time. Its to the point where she does this at restaurants. DH sometimes tells her "no phone", sometimes not.

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