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Hey guys,
I'm new here only about a week. All your stories so hit home with me. I can relate in several sad and depressing ways about living with my newly wedded husband of 2 months and his F..uk..g rotten SD.
Is there anyone from the Long Island NY area that would like to get together for coffee. Possibly a local Dunkin Dounuts and just vent and relate stories?.
I have so much to say as well, but my fingers cant hold up and type as fast as my mouth can go...lol
Please let know know If you inerested?
I just wanted to wish you all a very happy Thanksgiving with your loved ones (or "live'in"s, whether you love them or not!)
Thank you all for your recent support and help with my situations, and I hope that you all each get at least a peaceful day out of your Thanksgiving.
I am thankful for....all of you!
Hey everyone! I haven't gotten to get on here in a few weeks and man have I needed yall! Sooooo much has happened. I need about 5 blogs to tell ya all about it:
Here's the short version: If you want the long version, ask me about one- some are hilarious!!!
I am new here! I have been reading for about a week and wanting to join. My DH and I have been married for almost 4 years and I have a SD15 and SS11. I did not grow up in a split home so I had no idea everything you have to consider when you marry into one. I wanted to post and ask how you all decided it was the right time to have your own children with your spouse. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt my DH and I were put on this Earth to be together. We have been though a lot with the kids and BM and I am sure there is still more to come.
Ok I will try to give you the background info. in as least amount of space possible! We really need your advice!! My DH and BM have joint custody of SD3. My DH however has primary physical care. Here's the deal... We are supposed to have (court ordered) SD Christmas Eve and take her back to her mom's on Christmas Day at 10:00, last year it was the opposite. Well, we just got a request from BM asking if she could have SD from Dec. 21-Dec. 31 so she could take her to England.
I can't help but tell you guys how excited i am!! My DH told me about an hour ago that he is getting on the bus to go to the airport to come home to me!!! Its been 7 LOONG months of dealing with the BM by myself, and now i will get some support for 2 weeks! I just hope and pray that the holiday and the weather dont hold him up too bad. I KNOW i wont get any sleep tonight! lol. Hope you guys have a great holiday!!
Love - E
After my last post, SS steals money, mom calls dad and says I am sending him to be with you, on and on it went. Dad is ready to go get the boy. BM STOPS does not return calls and then acted stupid when dad gets a hold of her. Everything has changed. She will put SS in the hospital again. Yes again! Everytime he is out of control or does something stupid, BM puts him back in the hospital. Why discipline when you can medicate! Yes some kids need medication while others need consistancy and discipline.
Hello All! I write tonight with great news. For those of you who have been following my saga, you know that I am pregnant with twins, and have three others between my own and DH's. We have been desperately trying to rent out our 2 bdrm. condo to move into a place that will adequately house all of us. Well today, it happened!!! The condo is rented! I put an offer on a house that I think will be accepted, and if all continues to go well, we will be moved in before Christmas, best one ever! Best of all, I will have two bedrooms on a whole different level for my skids to stay in.
How much communication takes place between your H and his EX in reference to the kids?
Emails a day? Phone calls a day? If No emergencies are happening- No one is bleeding- No threat of something bad getting ready to happen to the kids. Just your everyday stuff-
"did you get the grades- well here they are-...etc...."
"are you taking J to her lesson today?....etc......"
"How did H do on his test?....Could you remind J about...."
"Take E's phone away b/c....."
"Are you going to......Will you tell him....."
"I think we should........"
....BM threatening to move the custody case from our current county, to a different one. Can she really do this? The case has already been heard twice in our county. The order's been in effect there since 2005. The papers she was served said she is in the same county as us. From what I know, her address is still covered in our county. SS was born here, and lived here until she wanted to move over a year later. Now she is saying that she can file with this other county, because that's the one listed on her lease. We have no idea where the courthouse is in that county.
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