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Summer visitation AHHHHHHHHHH!!!

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So my sk's are here for the month of June for their summer visitation. I hate it. I hate coming home knowing their grimly little selves have been in my house and touching my stuff. Only 2 more weeks though. It can not get here fast enough. DH and sk's do not even spend any time together. He works overnight and sleeps during the day and all they do in stay in their rooms. So why even come over here. DH refuses to assign them any chores to do while they are here. So, I stopped cleaning the kitchen or doing the floors.

OK, so

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making it official. Took a test last night and guess what, I'M PREGNANT!!!!!! OMG I can not believe it. I am scared and excited and nervous and any emotion you can imagine. Just wanted to let everyone know.

I'm a little confused

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Last night I was talking to DH and asked if he was sure he wanted to have a baby. We just started trying and I was curious. He asked if I was sure and I of course said yes. He then said "I hope it's a little girl just like you." Let me back up. In the past before we decided for sure to try, he would say it did not matter what it was just as long as I was happy. So I told him I did not think it mattered to him since he already has a boy and a girl. He got a little mad with me and asked why I always have to say stuff like that.

What does he want me to say, do

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DH and I were leaving a bit ago to run to the store. His kids are there for their EOW visit. He gets in the car and says "I don't know how it came to this." Let me back up for a moment. His kids were at the dining table eating. We had already eaten bc I asked that it just be he and I. Anyway, I walked through to go to the garage and did not say anything to them and they did not say anything either. So I asked him what he meant. He said me not even wanting to be in the same room as his kids. I told him this is just how it is for now.

Survey of sorts

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My DH and I are trying to have a baby. Just started trying but wanted to get some info. I was wondering what everyone's experiences were when BM and skids found out you were expecting. Also, how did you go about the annoucement? Did you let the kids tell the BM if they wanted or did you do something more official. Our BM is bipolar. She has not really bothered us in a long while but you just never know with people like her. I honestly do not care what her reation will be, however, I just wanted to hear a few stories so I can kind of be prepared for whatever she may throw our way.

BM and holiday gifts

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My DH's ex continues to buy his family gifts for the holidays and she sends them with the kids to our house to give them to the family while we are having our Christmas. They always try and sneak around and hide it but I know they do it every year. Last year I tried to put the gifts from BM under the tree and hand them out during gift time but DH would not let me. I know, that was a real bitch moment for me but this really pisses me off. DH has never been honest with his family about the reason they divorced. He finally told his brother 2 years ago what really happenend.

Hygiene anyone???

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Ok, I am just tossing this out there. But does anyone else have a disgusting little problem? My skids totally gross me out. They have been here since Wednesday night and SD15 has YET to take a shower. OMG, I know right?!?!?!?! With her being SO concerned about the way she looks, one would assume that hygiene would be number 1 priority. SS11 only takes a bath when we make him as well. During this past summer, SD went, I know, 1 week without brushing her teeth. OK, first off, are you freakin' kidding me and second what the h*ll kind of example do they have at home???

More babies...

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I am new here! I have been reading for about a week and wanting to join. My DH and I have been married for almost 4 years and I have a SD15 and SS11. I did not grow up in a split home so I had no idea everything you have to consider when you marry into one. I wanted to post and ask how you all decided it was the right time to have your own children with your spouse. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt my DH and I were put on this Earth to be together. We have been though a lot with the kids and BM and I am sure there is still more to come.