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My Valentine's Day has already started out right - My fiance went outside to get one of my gifts from the car. On the first step he slipped and landed in a snowbank. He put his hand out to stop his fall and was up to his shoulders in snow. He said that some guy was walking on the sidewalk directly in front of the house when he bit it and laughed! Well, as soon as I saw him all snow covered just trying to get a present for me, I laughed too. Then he showed me where he fell - there are 5 perfect finger holes in the snow. That is the best start to any Valentine's Day I have ever had.
How do all of you feel about DH/BF/FH going over to BMs house alone to see the kids?
So we're having the fSKIDS for 5 days and I am already feeling down. It's just little small things that make me upset. Anyway, to get to the point, we're getting ready to eat dinner, BF and fSS are down stairs already and I was left with fSD upstairs because she was still watching a movie. So I tell her that she can watch the movie down stairs and she starts a small tantrum like she sometimes does with me and BF and starts saying stuff like "No!", "I don't have to listen", "Leave me alone", "I don't like you" but tonight it was different.
Does a BM have the right to just show up at your house whenever she feels like it? I really think it's rude that she assumes just cause her kids live here she can just show up without asking me or DH. But what do I know?
I am always amazed at the new ways that BM continues to show her childishness and to the levels she will stoop to play her mind games with her own children.
I thought I would just post my letter so all could read it..if you wanna cut and paste go ahead...I have to give credit to another stepmom on a board for noncustodial parents who wrote some of it and I pasted it into mine...enjoy and beware it's LONGGGGG! 
January 28, 2008
Senator Byron Dorgan
322 Hart Senate Office
Building
Washington, DC 20510
Re: Child Support Reform and Non-Custodial Parents Rights
Dear Senator Dorgan,
My skids BM is just like herpes....Not life threatening or anything, just a real pain in the arse. She has flare ups and only medication and a little TLC can calm her down.
Life can be going just great and then for no good reason BAM....a flare up. Like herpes.....her "flare ups" are embarassing, unpredictable, ugly, contagious, and usually short lived. In my mind this whole situation is a sexually transmitted disease.
Anyways, I'm in a mood today and thought I'd share. }:)
My life sucks!!! I want a new one; in the witness protection program…..does anyone know where I can spy on some mobsters or something???
I never deleted my account from my mother's computer, but it was password protected. Well, her computer crashed & for some reason she needed my password. So it's possible that she might come here to snoop, so to avoid trouble - because if I find out she's been snooping around my accounts she & I are going to have a major blowout - I'm having my account & blogs deleted.
I appreciate all the insight & support I've gotten here & I hope the best for everyone.
Hipi
Ex wife is a Labor and Delivery Nurse and she has a 2 year old with my fiance. Now I have 5 kids and one on the way. My oldest is 7. I am not proclaiming that I know EVERYTHING about raising a child and what a child needs medically, but I am no idiot. Now when ever there child has diarrhea, she always gives her chocolate milk. I find this very wrong. Ii told her that she is not suppose to do that. No milk, especially chocolate milk. Now i was told that chocolate is a natural laxative anyways. So that wont help with diarrhea. I told her she needs to give her pedialyte.
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