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BM has found my public blog that i have been keeping for several years. I post all kinds of things - mainly my opinions and vents about things that are going on in my life. She is mentioned in the way of "his ex" or "ex-wife" and how things that she does or has done affect dh or our relationship. I also referred to the affair she had that ultimately caused the marriage to end. I have not identified her or her former lover in any way when referring to her past misdeeds. I have mentioned dh and skids by pseudonyms and there are no pics of the kids with 2 exceptions -
I had FH call legal aide to find out if they can help them with the money issues with BM(the loan payments she's not making although she LEGALLY supposed to!
I hate to even hope that this may be a turning point...
background - been sued by bm 3 times in the last year. still dealing with the order from the last go-round. ongoing problems with in-laws siding with BM and interfering in my relationship, dh relationship w/ kids and dh relationship (such as it is) w/ bm
yesterday dh gets mail from bm lawyer, threatening to sue again b/c they disagree with payment arrangements he made to comply with a court order. RIDICULOUS.
We are filing contempt charges on BM for not paying any child support. Does this mean we have to go to court as well?
I'm so sick of court
I have decided to change my name because BestOutta3 reminded me I am my husbands third wife every time I read it.
Have you ever noticed how peoples level of respect for a wife reduces with each marriage.... "Oh, so you're his THIRD wife? Do you have any children together? No? So he just had kids with his first two wives? Ok...."
and I wish that I could be there to see the look on her face! We already have court on June 5th and then the trial on June 24th for Custody. She sent an email today asking my H if he could take ss to soccer practice because she has to take her other kid to Dr. She said after practice to just drop off ss at the Clinic. H told her that we would be there for the soccer practice and she could just pick up ss from our house after she was done at the clinic (they take forever). H told her that since ss has been ill alot the last few weeks that he did not need to be at the clinic anyway.
As you know, I got back online yesterday, and have had some catching up to do. I have a myspace page, but, hardly use it much anymore, just to talk to my sis. & brother sometimes. Anyways....sometimes I look up my SS, his profile is set to private, and I don't communicate w/ him, but it's nice to see a new pic. every now and then. BM has a page too, of course, and she knows who SS talkes to, and who his friends are, and every word that's exchanged, and that is why we dont talk to him on it.
I havent been on here in a little while, even though i have had some tough times with my bf ex, i have gotton through them, but i have to vent today.
i signed my son up for Karate and when my bf's son was over i decided to take him with me to see if he liked it so that the boys could do something together. I wasnt sure if he would be able to participate or not because you have to sign them up first. basically it was a last minute thing i decided to do.
My husband retained custody after the divorce. EX had run off with another man and abandoned the family. After finding out abt me,(I came into the picture a few months later)she did everything in her power to get him back, when that did not work, she started poisoning her daughter, against us. She actually told me that I could have SS But she wanted SD back.
Hey all....moved in and back on line! Everything went well, the new place is great. I have been enjoying making it a home for us this past week. It felt so good to unpack, especially some of my things that I have not seen in months, that I was not allowed to take into shelter w/ us and had to store it at my aunts house. Hope all is well with everyone.....it's good to be back. 
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