I am sitting here paying bills and it hit me...All the silly things we do just to irritate the BM's.

I sign the CS checks, med. reimbursement checks and I make sure to address the envelope too just so she can see my name and my handwriting. Goofy huh?

I also put the phone in my name so that when the stepturds call her from here my name pops up on her phone.

Ahhhhhhhhhhh, the sweet screech of BM in the morning is such a wonderful thing. DH has sent two emails to BM asking for her input and concerns with SD14 and she is not responding to her email. She did; however, get SD17 phone DH last night and try and ream him a new a$$hole, he was sad, but not surprised, so BM is ramping up the PAS again.

First thing this morning, there's BM on the phone screeching at DH about letting SD14 run away from her issues, etc, etc, etc. He just said "Whatever" and hung the phone up on her :jawdrop: Alright DH.

So the whole issue with FH going into BM's house caused a major blowup..I really really regret moving out of my place..I had a beautiful 2 bedroom condo..and was so happy there, I got with FH and we moved into a 3 bedroom apt. because he had SS.

I sold ALL my furniture and have no $$ to move or buy anything. The only thing I have is a tv, and my daughter's new bedroom set.

FH has to pickup/dropoff SS2 at BM's house. In the beginning..he would go in and wait in her living room until SS was ready. I told him there is no need for this, he should be ready before he gets there..if you call her to tell her you are on your way. So he agreed and supposedly started waiting outside at her front door. Even though he says "it's not that a big of a deal if I go in and wait".