Welcome to the StepTalk Blogs!
Create your own personal blog and start sharing what's on your mind. Blogs are your own personal space for venting, asking questions, sharing your experiences, posting your favorite recipes, discussing your favorite shows, etc. This is your space to use as you please. You can manage your own blog posts as well as control the commenting on them.
When posting blogs, remember to add meaningful tags to your posts in order to help others find your blog posts when searching. This also helps you find your blogs later. Tags are fully searchable and allow you to organize your blogs.
Start your blog now!
Recent Blog Posts
To start off I never really pay attention to names or who writes what. Usually I read some of the recent posts and answer some if they apply or if I think I have a good point to throw in. I was not deliberately trying to attack "evryone" on here. I should have said some parents or some step parents or some other vague term. I was going to try to respond to each reply individually but there's a ton. Soemone said they thought since I hadn't replied yet, i wasn't goign to or to be here anymore-that's a load whoever that was.
My husband and I are in our early 40's and we have been married for 18yrs and the sons are not just mine, they're his too. The answer to your question is NO her mother (spouse's half sister)doesn't work. All she wants to do is party all the time instead of taking care of her responsibility which is not fair to anyone that has already raised their children like an adult should.
I searched in google and found this site...I had to write what my issue was first or I was going to explode.
I am 25...I was 23 whe my family suddenly changed from just me to 5, and then 6...it was crazy but it felt right.
Before that I lived in three different coutres, did my own thing, I was married to a kid for a couple years..I was a kid too... My former husband JIS was married for 8 years, had a bunch of kids, loved his ex wife for the first half of his marriage and hated her for the second half. he got a divorce 2 years before he met me.
My daughter who just turned 5 has been itching her crotch area for the last 5 days or so and I took her to the doctor this morning and found out that she and her step sister have been playing doctor almost every night in their bedroom. Now the SD is 9. I don't want to over react but when I compile this with the SD's behavior I am starting to think something is really wrong. I have not had a girl at this age so not sure if this is normal but it doesn't seem normal to me. Please give me your opinions. SD nine is constantly sticking things in her shirt and telling us that she has boobs.
in reference to why the court case was continued yet again, and discuss new evidence. Last week BM had her child support enforcement worker friend (she is not even the case manager anymore as of November 2008) send DH a letter stating he was not in compliance with the medical order and would be filing him in contempt of court on 30 July.
I have three step kids...two are identical twins, boys, very different from each other..they are 11.
And a stepdaughter ,TNS, who is 5.
One of the twins TJS, is a diabetic and has ADHD and has bed wetting issues. The other twin, TIS has asthma and is hitting puberty thousand miles an hour. TNS stopped using her binky pretty mutch when I moved in two years ago. They are great kids but latelly things have been going out of hand for me.
There is no point to this vent!
My DH is away for 8 weeks. Today is our anniversary. Tomorrow is his birthday. Wednesday is mine! 
We picked up my SS's on June 18 and we have had the best summer ever!!! We are supposed to take them back to BM by August 15 and it just seems too short of a time. I don't want them to go. I love these boys and they have a crappy life at home. We spend so much quality family time together when they are with us. We don't have money to do fancy, expensive things, instead we go camping, ride 4-wheelers, play games, have movies nights at home, basically all the things that they never get at home.
Will try to make this short. I was married to first wife for 12 years. We split when daughter
was 8. She stayed with mom. I remarried when daughter was 17. She went to college for 1 1/2
years and then asked if she could take a break from school and move in with us. X wife did not
want her daughter to take a college break but I was ok with it and looked forward to having my daughter move in with me and my new wife. Very quickly things went sour between current wife and daughter.
what the heck is wrong with everybody? I know I don't know any of you on here and I don't read all the entries, but I hear so much negativity about "skids" it makes me sick. I have my stepsons 5 days a week...EVERY week and most weeks in the summer it is 6 or 7 days. I think it's great! They all get their stinky attitudes and such, but they are kids. they have been thru hell with their parents splitting up, their mom is a piece of shit who doesn't cook, clean or take care of them and they are just children!
Pages
