Money hungry ex-wife from hell!!
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Hello! I am new here but I hope someone will read this and give me some much needed advice!!
My Skids have be come so incredibly lazy. I mean they shove stuff under their bed and I have to ground them. I think they have forgotten our rules and insist to live by their vacations rules with their mom. Which there is no consistancy with them. So get this. my SSon who I love dearly peed the bed the other night. I don't understand how he can go from doing great when he left to becoming a three year old after staying with bm for summer. She let him do whatever because it was easier to give him what he wanted than listen to him whine.
My work gave us tickets to a local baseball game. It was suppose to be a family fun night kind of thing. I got tickets for lil SS who kept talking about how excited he was because the older ss and his girlfriend were going with us. It was suppose to be fun and relaxing. Well last weekend lil ss went to beach with mom's bestfriend and her son. So this weekend she says is her weekend and she and her "new family" (Her fiance and 2 kids) are going to her friends house. I and my husband are being totally ditched! I told my husband he was going to have to stand up when it was his weekend.
Hello out there. I actually have something hopeful to write this week and I want to share it with those of you who might be in my situation.....
Backstory: Dh and I have been MISREABLE for months, I was DONE last week! BM's behavior and DH's lack of action was putting me over the edge! His once Strong, protective nature has been replaced by a slug.
As sad as this sounds I really do hate being a step mother. Im guessing one of the primary reasons is because her BM did such a poor job at raising her. She also lied to her about her dad and I making her think we didnt care about her or try to do things for her.
I am married to the love of my life.. the problem is he has 2 daughters!!!! I have 2 kids and they adore my husband, my kids are 18 and 20 ..a girl and boy. I moved a hour and a half away from my home town when we got married..my daughter wanted to finish her last 2 years in her high school so she is with my parents and my son decided to stay with a friend since he did not want to move..you would think that was reason enough to make my kids dislike there new step father..but no they like him!! Things are good we see my kids all the time.
As I've mentioned in other blogs, my in-laws are visiting. We picked up SD9 last night & we out to dinner with his parents (more on that in another blog). My husband also invited them to breakfast this morning, which is fine, especially since my husband is making pancakes. So all I have to do it make sure the table is clean & set & clean up after his pancake making mess.
I went to a craft fair with my mom a couple of weeks ago and bought the greatest sign for my kitchen! My skids are the pickiest eaters so I found a nice sign that says 'Dinner Choices: 1. Take it. 2. Leave it. I personally love it because it's totally me and shows my sense of humor. I actually have another sign that I hung above one of our bathroom doors that say 'Water closet for patrons only'. FH loves the bathroom one but I'm not too sure how much he likes the kitchen sign.
My FH snores and it drives me CRAZY! I can't sleep and when I tell him to turn over half the time he doesn't even wake up. It's come to the point lately that I will go sleep somewhere else in the house...especially when the skids aren't around. I really don't want to live like this but I'm the type of person that needs my sleep and if I don't get it I'm an unbearable person the next day...so much so I don't even like myself. My ex-BF and I actually ended up having seperate bedrooms and I feel that was the start of our down-hill slide and idefinately don't want that to happen again.
After this last SK visit DH & I talked about these last few years together. It left me thinking. I feel like i've gone backwards as far as excepting the SKs into my life. When DH & I were first dating, we used to have a lot of fun together. We'd go on trips. Did I not notice or did they not demand gifts & suck down sugar filled drinks & snacks the whole way? It was before SS4 could talk so I didn't hear that grating, high pitched & barely understandable voice constantly saying, "Daddy me want juice".