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I've recently discovered something this website is also good for

Stick's picture

Besides Venting!! Smile

Every once in a while, I go through my past blogs just to see what I've written about, so I don't do it again.

And there it is.... a history of relationship with SD and BM. A history that I can look back at and say... Wow...this did come up before. Or Shoot! Was it really ONLY last Friday that we had this run in with BM?

HOW TO DEAL WITH SOCCER PRACTICE???

Rosedeer1's picture

I know this might seem stupid to some of you but my ss and my foster daughter have practice on the same night for soccer they are ss(5) fd(4) and i am having a very hard time dealing with the fact that BM will probably be at her sons soccer practice I am not sure because she is the BM that just moved an hour away but i assume she will be there because she loves any chance to talk to my DH and see him, she is still not over him and we are married.

I hate it when BF is difficult toward BM for the sake of being difficult!! GRRR

Nymh's picture

In the parenting plan, it says that if one or the other parent is going to take SS out of state for more than 24 hours, they must provide the other parent with an itinerary including contact information for the duration of the trip. It does not specify when this itinerary must be given to the other parent. We are taking SS with us on vacation to Florida next week - we pick him up on Friday and fly down on Saturday.BM does not want SS to fly.

Okay, I read all the replies.....

Sassy's picture

To start off I never really pay attention to names or who writes what. Usually I read some of the recent posts and answer some if they apply or if I think I have a good point to throw in. I was not deliberately trying to attack "evryone" on here. I should have said some parents or some step parents or some other vague term. I was going to try to respond to each reply individually but there's a ton. Soemone said they thought since I hadn't replied yet, i wasn't goign to or to be here anymore-that's a load whoever that was.

Miserable

kaileen's picture

My husband and I are in our early 40's and we have been married for 18yrs and the sons are not just mine, they're his too. The answer to your question is NO her mother (spouse's half sister)doesn't work. All she wants to do is party all the time instead of taking care of her responsibility which is not fair to anyone that has already raised their children like an adult should.

OK I should introduce myself first...

RRH's picture

I searched in google and found this site...I had to write what my issue was first or I was going to explode.
I am 25...I was 23 whe my family suddenly changed from just me to 5, and then 6...it was crazy but it felt right.
Before that I lived in three different coutres, did my own thing, I was married to a kid for a couple years..I was a kid too... My former husband JIS was married for 8 years, had a bunch of kids, loved his ex wife for the first half of his marriage and hated her for the second half. he got a divorce 2 years before he met me.

Inappropriate sexual behavior from SD 9 Please give your advice.

misguided's picture

My daughter who just turned 5 has been itching her crotch area for the last 5 days or so and I took her to the doctor this morning and found out that she and her step sister have been playing doctor almost every night in their bedroom. Now the SD is 9. I don't want to over react but when I compile this with the SD's behavior I am starting to think something is really wrong. I have not had a girl at this age so not sure if this is normal but it doesn't seem normal to me. Please give me your opinions. SD nine is constantly sticking things in her shirt and telling us that she has boobs.

Telephone Conference with the lawyer today.....

imagr8tma's picture

in reference to why the court case was continued yet again, and discuss new evidence. Last week BM had her child support enforcement worker friend (she is not even the case manager anymore as of November 2008) send DH a letter stating he was not in compliance with the medical order and would be filing him in contempt of court on 30 July.

I guess it's time to ask for help

RRH's picture

I have three step kids...two are identical twins, boys, very different from each other..they are 11.
And a stepdaughter ,TNS, who is 5.
One of the twins TJS, is a diabetic and has ADHD and has bed wetting issues. The other twin, TIS has asthma and is hitting puberty thousand miles an hour. TNS stopped using her binky pretty mutch when I moved in two years ago. They are great kids but latelly things have been going out of hand for me.

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