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I need advice, same advice I usually need. We had to see BM today at SS soccer game and just on wed. she threatened to take DH back to court and now on Sat. she tries to be best buddies. DH has custody and she just moved again for the 7th time and has a new job again for the 5th time so I am not worried about court.
i was just thinking...now that dh and i know bm is keeping our money rather than paying for child care (the govt is picking that up for her) and the money isnt going to ss, she is buying red bull, ciggeretts, and what ever else she needs...clothes.
I am wondering how much info a 14 y/o should give her parents when she is going "out"? My fiance and I dropped my SD14 and her friend off in a town about 40mins from home last night. She told him she was seeing a "show", but she was dropped off in front of a Sub-Way. BTW my kids are all grown now ages 23-30. I always made sure I knew where they were, or at least asked for as much info as I could, before they went somewhere. I asked my fiance if he knew exactly where she was going to be...this ended up in a disagreement between my fiance and I. SD lives with us.
DH and BM had a meeting with the GAL last week. It finally went DH way. I don't know what changed the GAL mind but she finally got on BM case and DH was flabergasted!
i left work early yesterday and didnt have a chance to read it...but i was really looking forward to waking up this morning and reading it all.
17 y/o is rude & disrespectful to me & his 1/2 sibilings. more me than them. ive tried the ignore thing but its hard. ive heard him call me a b**** & say i wish she was dead more than once. his dh does handle things pretty good but when he isnt around( works alot a supervisor )i dont want to call him all the time. he ss yells at me when i ask his lazy ass to get up & help around the house with me & my 2 other ss . i wont do his laundry cause he throws it in the bottom of his closet.
Is that.....WRONG?!
NO...it could be wrong!!!!!!! Just wanting to 'screw around'....LOL.
But this INVASION did get me thinking....there has to be a better way to access and vent on this site that belongs to US. You know...for a dollar or two? Let me kmow what you think?
I think I am about to the end of my rope here.
I want to give some background on my situation, no I am not a stepmom officially, but I do live with my boyfriend and our kids.
nothing else has been said. DH acts as if it never happened. What the hell is it with men? DH is mostly good to me as a husband. But when it comes to all this crap with his precious princesses he can get ugly. I don't know what it is that makes him think it's okay to speak to them so gently, in regards to disciplining, and speak to ours with authority and sternness. Skids are 14 and 11, hardly old enough for adult conversation and definitely young enough to need some firm scolding from time to time. Our daughter and son are 7 & 4.
After a great wedding where SD gave a heart felt and complimentary speech, she goes to her moms, we go on our honeymoon (great time!) return home last week and thursday she sends an email saying she isn't coming back. DH calls talks and thinks she may get on the plane saturday. Mom is no prize. she is living with her mom, unemployed, in and out of jail with no D.L Living on unemployment and child support from her 5 yr olds dad. Our 15 yr old claims she needs to stay cause her brother needs her, she feels a maternal instinct to protect and care for him.
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