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i dislike my stepson

lyndee's picture

17 y/o is rude & disrespectful to me & his 1/2 sibilings. more me than them. ive tried the ignore thing but its hard. ive heard him call me a b**** & say i wish she was dead more than once. his dh does handle things pretty good but when he isnt around( works alot a supervisor )i dont want to call him all the time. he ss yells at me when i ask his lazy ass to get up & help around the house with me & my 2 other ss . i wont do his laundry cause he throws it in the bottom of his closet. i sometimes wish he would go back & live with his bm but she is probably glad he is gone. he done her the same way . ss ask me do you love me i dont answer idk what to say to that any suggestions?

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smnikki's picture

dh and i agreed on an age togehter as to when we feel ss will be held accountable for his words and actions, and if ss is rude and disrespectful to anyone in our home, he will find himself living with bm.

lyndee's picture

17 y/o

smnikki's picture

that he would ask you if you love him...this to me suggest that he cares how you feel about him. I think all kids go through things as a teen and your ss is not the first teen to be disrespectful and rude.

saying that he wishes you were dead is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of line, but im still confused by what he is asking you. Has dh tried to get him to change his attitude? have you tried to bond with this kid?

at 17 he is obviously capeable of being held accountable for his actions

lyndee's picture

dh has tried to get him to change his attitude .ive tried to bond with him he has lived with us for 3 yrs now. dh said dont do anything for him since he wants to act that way so i dont. now ss lie`s all the time to dh & my self. lie`s about stupid stuff to. suggestions?????????

lyndee's picture

i found a used condom in 17 yr old ss dirty jeans when i went to wash his clothes.gross!!! dh knows said he would handle it. i refuse to wash his clothes now and ss wants to be hateful about it.