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If I would not know this whole situation (and live it) - I would almost be entertained by it - but living it is more terror than entertaining!
My Husband and I married almost 5 years ago. Since BM didn't want the SS and SD he had Custody of the children with no child support.
I will be checking into new features and re-evaluating old ones. Further changes will be coming soon!
Thanks,
Dawn
After 8 months of being unable to see SS20 months, Nutty McDougal finally relented and let him come to stay with the main reason being that she just had another baby and can't handle them both. DBF and I have an 8 month old little boy, so it's not like we get full night's of rest either. Anywho, SS20 months has been with us for 3 days now and all he does is CRY! I can't take it. I don't want to go home from work or stay there. My DBF had him in bed with us last night and he howled from 10:30 until midnight.
FH sent me a text at 2:30 this afternoon to tell me that he was "stopping for a few"...meaning beers. His kids get home at 3:00 pm so I was a bit pissed that he left it up to me to take on the responsibily to care for them...since he see's it as 75% to 25% parenting. So, I was more mad when he came home completely drunk, and admitted it. He apologized to me for having way too many but I'm still pissed about it. Because he couldn't get his shit straight tonight, we picked SS9 up from football a half an hour late.
NO SHE IS'NT, Halayluya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For once I hope she learns something for this.
I feel like a stranger in my own home. I know all that is spoken about when I'm not in the room, then I get to smile in my SS14's face and act like nothing is bothering me. I have no solutions to the problems that have. My SS14 does not like rules, as many 14 year olds don't, there are now rules since school is back and I enforce these rules in the nicest way possible...I've even written them on a schedule where he only has to check the schedule on the calandar and he still does NOTHING.
Ever wonder why teens care so little about what us parents expect of them? I know I was the same way and still I don't get it. They know you are going to get aggrevated when they decide 1 second after you are finished talking to them that thy don't care what you say or expect of them...just makes me say
Well, the poor girl has been holding back her emotions and questions for so long it is now alllllll coming out.
In early 2006, when DH and I got engaged, it must have bothered SD because she asked one of her Religion teachers....
SD finally had a counseling appointment alone today. She asked the counselor her questions and not surprisingly, the counselor was upset and disturbed. She wanted to know where SD got the idea to question if she was emotionally abused.
Counselor basically told SD that, in her opinion, SD was not emotionally abused because her mom never meant to hurt her!! Sita - just like you said emotional abuse requires some form of "intent to hurt"... Counselor pretty much had said that, and thank you - I was able to reconfirm that in the car using your words!! Thank you!!
I have a sister who is married to at guy that is a great father, takes very good care of his kids (they have one together and he has 2 from a previous relationship), spends every weekend with his kids that he has by another woman....here's the issue, he had a drug problem for the last couple of years and it on various occassions has caused him to do things that i belive he wouldnt normally do.....i was the one that told my sister to leave and dont look back and of course she didnt and to be honest to my surprise her DH has enrolled in rehab and has been clean now for 6 months and he has rea