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dh talked to daycare lady, she seemed to think that dh should talk to bm and her bf about the matter, and not call cps, as it would be a long stressful battle.
dh and i discussed that bm's maturity level is not capeable of handeling this situation, and that if bm finds out what ss is saying with out a professional stepping in, possibly he could be made to keep secrets for fear that bm or her bf would do something and then we wouldnt know what was happening with ss over at her home....
well BM of my SD had her baby this Friday...we actually had a nice conversation through texting and so i feel a little better about this whole ordeal. I was nice and in return she was nice too... 
Or awful of me that I can't even read posts from new members anymore? I just don't want to get sucked in to a game. I keep thinking about the uproar from last week and thinking that every new member is one of "them" and they're just trying to get us to let our guards down, then WHAM!! I always wonder now if they're posing to try to "out" one of our members. It's awful too b/c there have been a few that I can empathize with and maybe offer some advice, but I always think it's all made up as well.
I wish I wouldn't have to question this haven that I made for myself.
It has been almost 2 months since I become a divorcee. In all it has been fantastic! I have become more ballsy and believe it or not I even look younger!!!!
Some of you may not remember my story because some are new. But I was stuck in a pretty bad place with a husband who was verbally abusive, a BM who tried to control my home (without the tried cause she did control it) and with unsupportive in laws. My former stepson was a sweetheart but the situation made things so bad I could barely look at him.
on friday, i picked up ss4 from daycare. The daycare lady is really nice and super tired of all of BM's nonsense. She is getting her pay docked by the govt, because bm is lying, and not paying for the extra hours ss is there out of the 270 she gets a month for child care from my dh...according to daycare lady, bm is going to get in big!!! trouble soon because all her lies are going to catch up with her!
For those of you who didn't read my last blog, BM refused to provide us with a uniform to take SD5 to school in on Monday mornings, per the court order. Well, her attorney told her she had to. This weekend, she brought us a uniform. Woohoo!! But she conveniently forgot her backpack, the backpack she told DH never existed. So when I showed up at the school this morning with SD, BM was waiting in front of the school with the backpack. She tried to take her and shoo me away, but I asked her to take me to SD's class and introduce me to the teacher.
If you remember my post last week, I was writing because my SD (9) came home with boils on her backside. She went back to BM's on Friday feeling tons better and almost fully recovered! She is due to come back to our house this afternoon and DH got an email from BM this morning saying that she not only lost the medication that we sent to treat the sores on her bottom but they are getting worse again and NOW SD has a sty! I am really at a loss as to what to do! Does anyone have any additonal advise?
I'm 21 and have been with my boyfriend for two years; we've lived together for a year and have a 9 month old daughter. He also has an 11 year old son who, it seems to me, is with us ALL THE TIME. In reality, he is with us every weekend (from Friday after-school to Sunday evening), every Monday from after-school til 6.30 and every Tuesday from after-school til 6pm. He is also with us from 8am til 6pm every single day of every school holiday and inset day.
Let the turmoil begin. I am new here to this site. Excuse my venting.
I've been told that I should kill the ex-wife with kidness but it's hard. I've taken in the horrible things that my FH, his family, friends, and neighbors have said about her and it's just really hard to feel all nice and fuzzy about his ex but I'll try....it'll be tough but I'll try!
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