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The BM has emerged again. Shame---DH has not taken a Pepcid for over 2 weeks (been three weeks since an email and phone calls been short and sweet)---sex has gotten mega great again due to less stress this woman can cause both of us. I know, I know---shouldn't let someone else effect us so much--we try not to, but unfortunately her ugly head rearing does stress us out.
We got SD8 from her mom's today. She duly informed us that her stepdad over there put a new punishment into play. He tended to be kinda over the top, so this was good. He created a naughty chair. Good idea. Then she asked us, "How do you spell Naughty?" With eyebrow raised I spelled it out n-a-u-g-h-t-y. Why? She smirked. "I thought that was wrong." I asked how he spelled it, thinking maybe he'd used knotty as a joke or something, you know wood chair yuk yuk yuk, funny? No. "He spelled it N-o-t-t-e." Hm.
I am only home to shower and eat and check my email.....
Yesterday was SD10's Santa Shop at the school. That's where they can buy inexpensive gifts for their family members for Christmas.
Wondering.....has anyone feared the BM? Like just afraid of what she was/is capable of? The BM has not made threats since I have been around but she did go to jail once for threats made to FH and things are escalating with SD13 the last 2 days to the point that it crosses my mind. I wont be able to get online today but am looking forward to reading comments when I get home.
The smallest things just get blown out of all proportion.
So I've been wondering if people have the same problems as I do with family lables and what to have stepkids call family members.
So here is another thing I am pondering today...
Last night I came home from dropping my DD12 at church and caught SD17 in our room looking through our stuff! I was furious to say the least and asked her what the freak she thought she was doing? She said she needed a bandaid and pointed to the one on her arm. Then she halled ass up to her room. Well DH was taking his final exams last night so I couldn't call him. When he got home I was furious and told him what she did. He goes upstairs to her room to confront her on his own and she denies the whole thing ever happened and said I was a liar. OMG...I was so ticked.
I have heard nothing but negative things about angry controling ex wifes. Is there any positive stories out there I am 26 my husband has 2 young children and I have one of my own. She seems to be a very controling and naturally a very unhappy angry individual. I have hopes that things will get better with time. Dose any one have anything positive to say or hand over any advise on how to handle it if she starts talking negative to the kids about me and or their dad.
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