Welcome to the StepTalk Blogs!
Create your own personal blog and start sharing what's on your mind. Blogs are your own personal space for venting, asking questions, sharing your experiences, posting your favorite recipes, discussing your favorite shows, etc. This is your space to use as you please. You can manage your own blog posts as well as control the commenting on them.
When posting blogs, remember to add meaningful tags to your posts in order to help others find your blog posts when searching. This also helps you find your blogs later. Tags are fully searchable and allow you to organize your blogs.
Start your blog now!
Recent Blog Posts
**The last thing I wanted was for someone to attempt to call out a dear friend of mine in an unkind way by using my blog as their drunken soapbox. I was frustrated and saddened by conduct unbecoming on this site. I was devastated when a member of this community decided to use this as a forum to bash cops. That is not what we are here for. Stating your opinion is one thing but intentionally antagonizing people is another entirely. It was immature behavior in the highest degree for that blog to ever have been posted.
Ok, so who has tried couples counselling?
Did it help or did you fight more?
Just got off the phone with DH. His best friend is coming in for a few days. (He lives about 5 hours away) I asked where he was staying and DH said friend is getting a hotel. So I offered the option of him staying in our guest room to save some money. DH says "Uh...not that's ok he has other plans...." I said, "Do those other plans include another woman???" (This friend is married and I am friends with his wife!) DH..."Call you back in a minute." (He's working...I know this because I could hear a client in the background) WTH???
So me and Dh have our first counselling meeting tonight. I hope it goes well, and I hope they dont kick us out because we are getting along right now. I think this is the biggest thing on my mind. We are not fighting right now so what if they decide that we dont need to be there? We have this cycle, maybe its the moon... where we can get along for two weeks then we bicker for a week and then we FIGHT for a week.
Anyone else notice these patterns in your own relationships?
What is the first meeting with a counsellor usually like?
Anyone have any good cop stories?
I want to say something.
My DH is a cop. He's great at what he does.
I can't handle it anymore!!!! I've had problems with SS6 ,for 4 1/2 yrs now. I know this is harsh, and please don't think I haven't tried... But the relationship is totally forced and fake. There is no love and no connection. He doesn't follow rules, he's rude and he teaches my son bad habits. He is so manipulative and plays BM and DH like a violin! It's horrible! I dread every other weekend and 1mo. in the summer! BM is literally the devil. She talks shit about my son, makes fun of us bc we go to church, calls my DH waaay too much!! It's an issue. BM and I have zero contact..
Three police officers came to our home at about 9:30 last night to arrest my husband on a warrant that had popped up in their system. This warrant was for a $150 fine from about six years ago. ONE HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS and you need THREE police officers to do the deed. Seriously? This further confirms that our judicial system, as well as the police force does not have a clue as to what they're doing. The police men claimed that the warrant was issued about six years ago...so, if it has been an active warrant for SIX YEARS, then why was he not arrested previously?
This weekend was the first weekend in a long time that my BF daughter was not there. I am thinking....we will get to catch up on some much needed one on one time. We went a couple places...came home watched TV....nice and quiet. All my hopes of having a nice quiet weekend alone with my guy were pretty much ruined by my BF's depression over his daughter not being there for only a day and a half. He moped around and talked about how much he missed her. I'm at a loss in what to do.
For months I have been finding little notes from SD to herself, complaining about how much she hates it here and can't stand it and want to live with her mother and her mother is so much better than her dad. Each one usually says I can't live with my Dad anymore I have to live with my mom cause I haven't lived with her in so long. SD10 also had ODD (actually I think she's bi polar like BM) and in one note it says I will not stop my anger problem til I live with my mom. Well, that's funny cause you talk to you mother like a piece of shit too!
My husband took my three grand kids out camping about 6 miles from our home at a very cool lake where all the teenagers love to go because there is lots to do. I don't like to camp out so I came out there in the day time and spent nights at home. He has been married three times before our marriage and has a teen age daughter from his last marriage. He watches her like a hawk when she is with us and treats her much better than he treats my grand kids. Any way, we have had major trouble with him lying to me and not being loyal since the first year.
Pages
