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My SS has been gone for 3 days so far and will not be back for about 5 more days. This is only the third time he has been away from the house and the longest he has been away since he moved in a year ago. OMG…it has been heaven!!!!
DH's son began calling & talking to DH probably once every couple of weeks back in November. He called for the first time in over a year on DH's birthday. He called again a few weeks later & told DH that he hated him for several reasons (I blogged about it previously) & they ended up talking about SS wanting to come spend a few hours with DH & his family on Christmas Eve. They talked a few times back & forth. SS was to talk to BM about it & let DH know. When they talked last Tuesday, SS said he'd call the day before Christmas Eve to let us know for sure.
ok so christmas day when my dh went to get my skids for Christmas, my daughter decided to talk to me about a problem.
And little to none into actually taking care of and raising the kids?
I came on here to vent about the BM in my situation spending way too much time manipulating everyone into believing she is the perfect parent while simultaneously neglecting my SS.
Looking through the posts on here I see that the BM wasting energy on making their ex's look bad is a common theme . . .
Why? :?
Hi there - just joined this group. Wish I'd found this years ago. Feel like I'm finally at the point where I gotta vent. Spent thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours in counseling over the last 5 years or so, so I'm well on the way to learn the disengaging bit. Sux, doesn't it? But, so goes the life of a step parent. Or perhaps better described as a non-entity. Married my DH about five and a half years ago. About 5 years ago, the BM dies of cancer, so SS (then 13) and SD (then 10) come to live with us full time. My BD is 17 at the time.
So it has been a while since I was last on. BM had just put a RO against BDad. CPS and cops were involved and they both closed the case two days later and told us that there findings were that SS10 was lying and the BM was just using it to get custody. She was told to stop and act like an adult and try to talk things out with BDad. No we found out that she has SS10 in therapy and did not want use to know. We asked her for the number, address, name, and when he goes. They both have 50/50 custody of the children.
I have been a step mom for 15 years and I can't take it anymore. Of course I will have to, but I feel like I'm losing my mind. My heart races and I am constantly on edge. I have one step daughter and it feels like I have 20. Her mother is the main source of our frustrations. It never ends, sometimes when we don't hear from her, we will live in harmony, but we know it's coming, it always does.
So-I keep reading about this...and I'm starting to wonder, maybe because I had a difficult day today. I think it's always very bad on Sundays when she's going home-maybe jealousy because we all stay here as a family..the transition, feeling displaced, whathaveyou..but she turns into a horrible girl to be around. I do not and will not subject my sons to her hateful attitude anymore when she's like this-sorry this is MY home, well and my sons home also!
apparently they are reading my facebook and said that I said something about their mother on facebook, and they would not be coming. i seriously block anyone who is friends with her, my skids...., i make my page private and she still finds a way to snoop on me.
its as if they didn't really want to come....so they figured out a way to get us to buy them presents AND deliver them!! what a racquet. I wish i never married into this family. they have done nothing but hate on me and take since day one.
SO calls all week to pick up SD4 for Christmas. (not divorced yet, no court order) No answer, no call back. Finally SO loses his cool and yells on the answering machine. BM calls back with "what do you want?" Argument ensues over seeing children for Christmas. He goes to BM's house the next day to try to see kids. Brings gifts for boys, tries to pick up SD4. BM tells him no. Can't see kids for Christmas. He tries to call their names from doorway, BM slams door in his face. He goes to car and calls me. I tell him to knock again. He knocks, no answer.