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i just dont' understand this woman. she gets paid cs yet she cannot support her children. she makes the exact same as DH but he pays her support so her has additional money. her unfortunate dh makes good money, yet her children go without.
Dh took ss15 shoe shopping because his prior pair was 2 sizes too small for the kid. we purchased a pair of size 14 shoes!!! the prior pair was a 12 mesh shoe - he had blown out the sides so you could see his socks. bm's solution to this was to buy him black socks so you couldnt' tell his toes were showing out the side.....awesome bm.
Hello....I need to vent! My SS bio Mom has bipolar and it seems it's in the bad stage right now. Things had been quiet for a couple of months but now she is back to all her usual crap. She blames me for the break down of the relationship between my boyfriend and his Step son (her bio child). I have never done anything to this kid, he's 21 now, but she has filled his head with lies about me and says he won't come over to see my BF because he hates me. My BF was his father in everyway since he was 4 and it bothers him that he won't come over, now we know why.
...and is not, as research had previously suggested, of the sub-human species classified as "Turd."
It took a lot of prodding, but I have successfully removed 90% of DH's balls from his stomach where they retreat to every time BM's name is mentioned. DH FINALLY called BM to let her know that I would be spending some time alone w SS when he comes to stay w us for a few days the week after next. He told her that he wanted to "let her know" so that there would be no repeat of last time (when she took SS away from me). BM said...SURE :jawdrop:
I can no longer stand to watch SS9 eat. I can't stand watching him eat anything.. .even an apple. I know this is my problem... I just felt like venting about it.. because it really gets to me. Anytime food is discussed, eaten, prepared, SS gets soo excited, dances around the kitchen... my god, I can't handle it. His whole life evolves around food... my pantry, fridge, and cupboards are all locked up with deadbolts... This weekend I was making his dad a Tomato and Bacon sandwich... so of course SS wanted one... and he was so excited to have Bacon..
Yep you guessed it they didn't come! Not a peep out of them! I told dh that even if he told bm that it should be their choice bm will influence them no matter what! Then sat. night dh told me that bm probably did influence them which why I told him what I did. HUH? :?
I'll try to make a long story short. DH and BM have been divorced 5 years, DH has had primary custody the whole time. BM had EOW Fri-Mon AM. Two and a half years ago BM threatened suicide and was ordered to get therapy and some other things. She has not done those things and has been held in contempt multiple times and has gone months without any visitation, some has been supervised, location restricted, etc in this time. She has not had overnight visitation in 1 1/2 years. Currently she sees Skids 12 hours EO Saturday.
So, Friday night DH's cell phone rings. We don't typically use our cells at home because the service goes in & out. Sometimes it'll ring through & other times it won't. This time it did, & DH happened to be standing next to his phone when it rang. I knew he was in the kitchen near it but it kept on ringing. I glanced over & he just kept staring at it. I asked who it was & he stated it was the kids.
I am so furious right now! So DH & I have sone most of our Christmas shopping, except for the kids. Every year we set a budget on how much we will spend on each person we shop for and we pretty much stick to the amount we set. So since TG I have been asking DH what our budget was for the kids (ss13 included). He is our sole provider since I'm a stay at home mom so he decides what we can afford since his paycheck varies each month.
My lost post I told you about us having problems with my 2 SD well we talked to the oldest 9 and things are back on the right track for now with her our youngest 6 still having problems she doesn't want to come see us anymore she doesn't like it here. My DH has always siad he will never force them to come if they don't want to which I'm glad cause when they are here and unhappy just drags us all down.
I cant stand it anymore, they are honestly the most disgusting kids i have ever come across. They leave food and drinks and empty wrappers all over the house. They even just stuff chip packets and empty drink cartons under the bed or in the lounge cushions. They eat ALL day. i find it truly horrible that they eat constantly and they only ever eat shit food. I have taken to hiding food as to avoid another grocery shop after only 2 days of having them. SS13 is nearly 95kg. He is just gross. They never brush their teeth.
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