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Last night my SKs (SD13 and SS8) were doing their homework and all of a sudden they started to argue. So I started to tell them not to talk to each other because it will only turn out into a big argument if they do. Well DH calls me and whispers in my ear, "Leave the disciplining to me."
My husbands ex has been sending me any and all info and questions to me because they have not been getting along. Im tired of dealing with her. My job is to care for my Step daughter and I do, but I refuse to get in the middle of any arguments between my husband and the ex. She always threatens to block his number then immediately starts texting my phone. She drives me crazy. She is bi polar and always causes problems with little things when it could be much more simple. I hate that I let it get to me. GRRRRR!!!
So my DH wrote THIS to our BM today...
Just thought I would give you a heads up. SD9 had an eye appointment yesterday and her vision has actually gotten better. She only needs her glasses now for reading, in the classroom or when she watches TV and plays video games. So, when she goes outside to play she can leave them inside. I'll probably just send her with her old pair though, that way if something happens to them or she forgets them at the end of the visit it's not a big deal.
So my SS is potty trained (for the most part) but my DH still has to go in and help him out when he is "done" using the bathroom. So my DH went to the store a few days ago and SS said he had to go to the bathroom. I took him in and put his little step stool so he could get on the toilet and then he asked me to leave. No big deal, he needs his privacy. Then when he was done he asked if his daddy was back yet and and I said no, so he said he would wait for him because he didn't want me to see him.
Lately I took a little break from Step Talk. I needed my own cooling-down period. Sometimes I wonder if I get so worked up about things because I am reading other people's drama...you know what I mean?
I was in DH's email this morn and I came across one of those chain letter forwards called "getting to know you" where you fill in the info and send it along. Here was her answer for #26
26. What are you most afraid of?
What would happen to my son if I left this world.
Passive agressive much?? Why would you forward this crap??? I wish you would leave this world, it would be a much better place without you...
Oh yeah. and this is coming from the irresponsible woman who allegedly lost the $120 we sent her to get SS a passport. Huh...
So, I had to go to court the other day (unrelated to BM) and I put my suit on (the one I used before I became a teacher) and I drove off by myself for a change. I remembered my old, unfettered life before psycho BM. When I was calm, friendly, professional and on a sure career track. I went through enough hard times with my mother's death, and the decliining economy. Now it seems daily life is filled with fielding and sidestepping the psychotic behavior(s) of psycho BM, causing me to regress in my behavior also.
So DH has been doing a lot of side jobs and i thought it would be for the golf cart we've been talking about getting. this morning he says that SS15 asked him if he would pay for half of a laptop if DH would pay for the other half. I said OH YEA...that sounds nice. in my head i'm thinking how stupid DH is because this kid has never paid for HALF of anything he says he will, it's always well i have this and i'll pay you back the rest later.
I want to ask how you can get BM to agree to things she is already doing in writing so we can get it put in the papers? For almost a year now she has meet up almost half way when we get and take back the skids. This is one thing she holds over my DH head if she doesn't like something he does then fine you come all the way so now the drive goes from a 2hrs and 15mmin to 4 1/2hrs it sucks! And taxes before they even got a divorce or papers on the girls as long as one of them paid child support to the other one they would split the girls on taxes. That way they could both have one on taxes.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he has a little girl from his previous relationship.
At first me and her Mum used to get on OK, we'd have her and her boyfriend round for dinner etc.